“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I just see the crash. I see that highway like accident of female hypergamy and hitting the wall. I don't see any way back. I think simps will always bail out skanks.

Tbh this is the first Nye since before junior high school that I didn't go out Nye. Just chilled out with plate.

I don't recommend that as routine nor through holidays but it is strange times. If you saw Troy Francis' late night podcast it's pretty eerie in London atm
Simps will always simp. There seems to be more simping lately.

You went out on NYE every year for nearly 20 years. Seems like you and the plate had a good final night of the year.

I haven't been out in my city's key nightlife areas since before the pandemic hit. I'm curious what they are like these days.
 

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Simps will always simp. There seems to be more simping lately.

You went out on NYE every year for nearly 20 years. Seems like you and the plate had a good final night of the year.

I haven't been out in my city's key nightlife areas since before the pandemic hit. I'm curious what they are like these days.
I meant, even in junior high school there were parties. The hype was always extraordinary and never IMHO lived up to it. Pandemic was the first time I wasn't clubbing, at bar or house party. London is boarded up and sadly many biz are not going to be back
 

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The hype was always extraordinary and never IMHO lived up to it.

London is boarded up and sadly many biz are not going to be back
NYE is usually a let down. The weirdest house party I went to on NYE was one where mostly everyone was single and no one kissed at midnight. There was another year at some bar where at midnight some single gal didn't kiss me when I went in for the kiss. I was not happy about that.

London is not unique in that regard.
 

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NYE is usually a let down. The weirdest house party I went to on NYE was one where mostly everyone was single and no one kissed at midnight. There was another year at some bar where at midnight some single gal didn't kiss me when I went in for the kiss. I was not happy about that.

London is not unique in that regard.
On the old mystery lounge, the GOAT piece was to create a new means to boost your state. It was a accelerator of going out especially solo and or under slept. I found Nye always a let down. I don't want the bug and the streets are dead. We've been there man. I remember my childhood first dance. The only bloke without a dance (numbers were uneven and I was not nearly the sniper as I am now). I chuckle now but I remember at 18 with a fake ID trying to comprehend how to pull. As in, how do I get her out of the bar? To a taxi cab. To my place?

The game and exp solves these problems.
 

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100%. The first thing that I recommend is that fellas especially young men, chain gun cold approach pickup like Arnold in T2. Volume > not that one skank. Even Tusk said after a botched pickup he should have taken off the mask.

London ain't different. No excuses. #nextset!

The plus is that, you get absurd amount of experience, reference points, and it becomes another day at the office.

Coyote mate, don't go full retard like I did with pickup. Seek competence. Approach a handful of girls EVERYDAY in 2021. Don't stop till dead or D falls off. Jlaix had a saying. Irrelevant! Indifference. The outcome is what it is. Source women. If you will be jailed in your state, MOVE. Cultivate Being that guy!

Tyler used to talk about freedom from outcome and intent.
Thanks mate, that's more or less what my plan is for the near future!
No excuses period!

In my state, outdoor approaching is the workaround to masks, which are killing grocery store game. I didn't like malls as much as grocery stores before the pandemic. Mall traffic is also down so I'd imagine there's not much mall approaching that can be done.
In my freaking state literally everyone wears a mask outdoors at all times, so there's no other choice but to engage people wearing one...
Feels so unnatural...
In any case, we have to accept that there's an additional condition that needs to be satisfied these days: a girl being more interested in meeting you than being afraid of getting COVID from you.
 

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So you stop having sex in 2017 cause he retired? Im not sure I get what you meant in your last line.
I just didn't have it as much, and he'd tested me on more than one occasion for STDs and/or bloodwork. Nothing ever came back but he always approached my paranoia with "ah, I caught" this or that in the 70s, 80s (none of the permanent stuff). After he retired, I pulled back a bit because I really don't have a doctor for the past 3 years I'd be comfortable going in and getting an STI test with. He was the best in understanding my forays and not being married though he himself married and with a son who was struggling to become a doctor/dentist (not married). I think he'd wished he was still my age or younger, that's the feeling I got from him, that he'd wished he was still havin wild sex.
 

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Thanks mate, that's more or less what my plan is for the near future!
No excuses period!
None needed. I wish somebody could help me out when I was a kid or showed me the roles. I had met a few naturals and fellas who just got it. It makes a huge difference. The alternative is being unnatural. Learning game. Becoming cognizant of "the window" of opportunity when alone with a young girl. After enough experience (&&& botched experiences lulz), you just get it.

Life's too ****in boring not to try!

In my freaking state literally everyone wears a mask outdoors at all times, so there's no other choice but to engage people wearing one...
Feels so unnatural...
In any case, we have to accept that there's an additional condition that needs to be satisfied these days: a girl being more interested in meeting you than being afraid of getting COVID from you.
I had a experience through holidays. A baeeee was not engaging as usual. She is with her mom. I can have some patience with the circumstances and logistics. I did find myself getting annoyed. Then I notice, another girl giving me choosing signals. IOIs. It wasn't much. Double take. Checked me out twice simultaneously. I am on it!

It turns out that the masks threw me off. The girl who was with her mom was a diff girl. The one giving the choosing signals was a previous prospect.

****ing covid.


Girls should come with bar codes.


 
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