Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Simps will always simp. There seems to be more simping lately.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I meant, even in junior high school there were parties. The hype was always extraordinary and never IMHO lived up to it. Pandemic was the first time I wasn't clubbing, at bar or house party. London is boarded up and sadly many biz are not going to be back
NYE is usually a let down. The weirdest house party I went to on NYE was one where mostly everyone was single and no one kissed at midnight. There was another year at some bar where at midnight some single gal didn't kiss me when I went in for the kiss. I was not happy about that.
On the old mystery lounge, the GOAT piece was to create a new means to boost your state. It was a accelerator of going out especially solo and or under slept. I found Nye always a let down. I don't want the bug and the streets are dead. We've been there man. I remember my childhood first dance. The only bloke without a dance (numbers were uneven and I was not nearly the sniper as I am now). I chuckle now but I remember at 18 with a fake ID trying to comprehend how to pull. As in, how do I get her out of the bar? To a taxi cab. To my place?
Thanks mate, that's more or less what my plan is for the near future!
In my freaking state literally everyone wears a mask outdoors at all times, so there's no other choice but to engage people wearing one...
I just didn't have it as much, and he'd tested me on more than one occasion for STDs and/or bloodwork. Nothing ever came back but he always approached my paranoia with "ah, I caught" this or that in the 70s, 80s (none of the permanent stuff). After he retired, I pulled back a bit because I really don't have a doctor for the past 3 years I'd be comfortable going in and getting an STI test with. He was the best in understanding my forays and not being married though he himself married and with a son who was struggling to become a doctor/dentist (not married). I think he'd wished he was still my age or younger, that's the feeling I got from him, that he'd wished he was still havin wild sex.
None needed. I wish somebody could help me out when I was a kid or showed me the roles. I had met a few naturals and fellas who just got it. It makes a huge difference. The alternative is being unnatural. Learning game. Becoming cognizant of "the window" of opportunity when alone with a young girl. After enough experience (&&& botched experiences lulz), you just get it.
I had a experience through holidays. A baeeee was not engaging as usual. She is with her mom. I can have some patience with the circumstances and logistics. I did find myself getting annoyed. Then I notice, another girl giving me choosing signals. IOIs. It wasn't much. Double take. Checked me out twice simultaneously. I am on it!
