"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is the approach different with women on the rebound?

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Hey brothers,

Went out with a girl yesterday, age 31. I'm 37. She just got out of a 10 year relationship with her ex boyfriend after he cheated on her. It ended around Christmas, three months ago. She's just beginning to date again.

Amateur question, but is the approach different with a girl like this? What do I look out for? How do I approach this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do YOU want from her?
She will not be ready for a new LTR after just 3 months fresh out of a 10 year LTR.
She will however be full of emotions, like anger, feelings of worthlessness and look for validation from other men to restore her sense of worth in her mind.
Approach? You approach this with the same mindset as usual. Ask yourself what you want and go after it. I would expect to be a rebound at this time no matter what she says.
No pressure, hang out, have fun, bang.
 
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I want to bang her.

Then, see if she'd be good for LTR down the road.

She's a bit immature, but I did connect with her at times.
 
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