"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is the approach different with women on the rebound?

Stoic

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Hey brothers,

Went out with a girl yesterday, age 31. I'm 37. She just got out of a 10 year relationship with her ex boyfriend after he cheated on her. It ended around Christmas, three months ago. She's just beginning to date again.

Amateur question, but is the approach different with a girl like this? What do I look out for? How do I approach this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What do YOU want from her?
She will not be ready for a new LTR after just 3 months fresh out of a 10 year LTR.
She will however be full of emotions, like anger, feelings of worthlessness and look for validation from other men to restore her sense of worth in her mind.
Approach? You approach this with the same mindset as usual. Ask yourself what you want and go after it. I would expect to be a rebound at this time no matter what she says.
No pressure, hang out, have fun, bang.
 

Stoic

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I want to bang her.

Then, see if she'd be good for LTR down the road.

She's a bit immature, but I did connect with her at times.
 
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