"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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is that a good idea (not another facebook thread)

TheMale

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hey guys

tonigh i was in a friend place for bbq we were 13 people
the interest was on me i did some great work

there was a cute chick she was into me .... we had fun we talked i was getting sexual

long story short great time
she then asked my last name so i told her i wont tell her until she promise not to add me on facebook
told her and she told me her

i needed to go sooner than everyone else so i just said bye to everyone
but didnt asked for number i think it was because i wasnt so comfortable to do tbat in front of everyone

so i thought theres 2 options
1.to contact her through facebook with a message like 'hey (her name or a private joke) you seems to be a fun person and because i was in a hurry i forgot to take your number'
2. wait until ill see her again and it can take a while

what's your opinion ?
and if its the facebook option that i should do so what do i need to change in or add in the message ??
i want to say that facebook is just a way to get her number, as soon as i got him im leaving facebook

thx
have a great day
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GoodLookingLoser

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go for the facebook, if she's into you-- its no problem.. done worry about looking needy/being smooth whatever... if she digs you- you're fine

say- "hey im not facebook too much, what a ## I can text you at"
done
she's in or out.
if she digs you, you'll get her #

if not, go hit on other girls but make it a habit of taking their numbers "hey youre cool, whats a number I can text you at.." worked for me
 
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