"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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is that a good idea (not another facebook thread)

TheMale

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hey guys

tonigh i was in a friend place for bbq we were 13 people
the interest was on me i did some great work

there was a cute chick she was into me .... we had fun we talked i was getting sexual

long story short great time
she then asked my last name so i told her i wont tell her until she promise not to add me on facebook
told her and she told me her

i needed to go sooner than everyone else so i just said bye to everyone
but didnt asked for number i think it was because i wasnt so comfortable to do tbat in front of everyone

so i thought theres 2 options
1.to contact her through facebook with a message like 'hey (her name or a private joke) you seems to be a fun person and because i was in a hurry i forgot to take your number'
2. wait until ill see her again and it can take a while

what's your opinion ?
and if its the facebook option that i should do so what do i need to change in or add in the message ??
i want to say that facebook is just a way to get her number, as soon as i got him im leaving facebook

thx
have a great day
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GoodLookingLoser

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go for the facebook, if she's into you-- its no problem.. done worry about looking needy/being smooth whatever... if she digs you- you're fine

say- "hey im not facebook too much, what a ## I can text you at"
done
she's in or out.
if she digs you, you'll get her #

if not, go hit on other girls but make it a habit of taking their numbers "hey youre cool, whats a number I can text you at.." worked for me
 
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