"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is that a good idea (not another facebook thread)

TheMale

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hey guys

tonigh i was in a friend place for bbq we were 13 people
the interest was on me i did some great work

there was a cute chick she was into me .... we had fun we talked i was getting sexual

long story short great time
she then asked my last name so i told her i wont tell her until she promise not to add me on facebook
told her and she told me her

i needed to go sooner than everyone else so i just said bye to everyone
but didnt asked for number i think it was because i wasnt so comfortable to do tbat in front of everyone

so i thought theres 2 options
1.to contact her through facebook with a message like 'hey (her name or a private joke) you seems to be a fun person and because i was in a hurry i forgot to take your number'
2. wait until ill see her again and it can take a while

what's your opinion ?
and if its the facebook option that i should do so what do i need to change in or add in the message ??
i want to say that facebook is just a way to get her number, as soon as i got him im leaving facebook

thx
have a great day
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GoodLookingLoser

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go for the facebook, if she's into you-- its no problem.. done worry about looking needy/being smooth whatever... if she digs you- you're fine

say- "hey im not facebook too much, what a ## I can text you at"
done
she's in or out.
if she digs you, you'll get her #

if not, go hit on other girls but make it a habit of taking their numbers "hey youre cool, whats a number I can text you at.." worked for me
 
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