is "taking time off" ever OK? from landing girls, that is.

[starfishandcoffee]

just cut the cord with a crazy FB, and I like this freedom.

I've had some decent dates lately, and a fair amount of success this year...but I feel like sharpening the saw for a couple of months, recharging, and retreating into my own hobbies and workouts before I start dating again.

Is that ever OK? I don't want to "lose my touch", but the idea of not having girls define me for 2-3 months appeals to me.

 

[Mike32ct]

It's fine, even beneficial.

As Paradox and a few others have noted, "plates" don't have to be women. Hobbies, career, fitness, etc. can be plates you spin.

I don't think any guy should chase puss constantly unless you are some "professional pickup artist."

 

[Exoduso]

I think it's a welcomed change. You don't need to constantly be skirt chasing to be happy.

 

[starfishandcoffee]

this is an odd reason why. I'm not going all ElStud and saying "I'm done with girls", I'm just looking to take a time out for a while.

(I say 2-3 months, but it'll probably end up being a month...haha...it's getting warmer out.)

 

[Zarky]

Yup, I'm at my best (pickup-wise) when I'm horniest, and I just haven't been that turned on lately. Goes in cycles. I hooked up with several chicks in 2 weeks back in January and then nothing since. Just haven't been interested enough to try.

It comes and it goes. It used to bother me when I went a couple of months without a new girl, but now I know it'll come back so I enjoy my downtime.

 

[JohnChops]

Agreed with Mike. Hobbies, fitness, etc can be plates too. I like taking a break from women. Its just a good thing to do sometimes.

 

[BeDJ]

I've experienced it; taking time off is just a buffer for Frustration. At one point I had a 5 flake streak. Embrace the highs and endure the lows. You will bounce back, but you won't do it by backing out of the Game.

 

[buzzin_frog]

just cut the cord with a crazy FB, and I like this freedom.

I've had some decent dates lately, and a fair amount of success this year...but I feel like sharpening the saw for a couple of months, recharging, and retreating into my own hobbies and workouts before I start dating again.

Is that ever OK? I don't want to "lose my touch", but the idea of not having girls define me for 2-3 months appeals to me.

why wouldn't it be ok? in fact you should do it!! you should be living your life for yourself....not women...you don't lose your touch if you know what you're doing.

there's always more to life than just women!!

you always need a break from everything in life!! take this time to have fun and better yourself!!

you will feel like a new man....already to go!!

good luck!