"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is swagger the highest form of confidence?

Thatfeel21

Thatfeel21

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Ive noticed a decent amount girls cant seem to differentiate between

****iness/arrogance/high confidence...but i think swagger is the ultimate

confidence and is unmistakable by anybody within 30 feet of you if you

honestly possess it..

its in the way you talk, the way you walk, the way you carry yourself...

and when you have it, you just know it..

thoughts?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How about action and belief to go after what you want, then achieving it? That to me is the highest form of confidence.

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Confidence is being confident without having to put other people down to have it, and that gives you your swagger.

****iness has to have someone to put down in order to feel better which is not the same as confidence.

Confidence comes from within.

****iness and arrogance come externally.

I the mention of swagger though. Good play on words!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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