Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is swagger the highest form of confidence?

Thatfeel21

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Ive noticed a decent amount girls cant seem to differentiate between

****iness/arrogance/high confidence...but i think swagger is the ultimate

confidence and is unmistakable by anybody within 30 feet of you if you

honestly possess it..

its in the way you talk, the way you walk, the way you carry yourself...

and when you have it, you just know it..

thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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comic_relief

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How about action and belief to go after what you want, then achieving it? That to me is the highest form of confidence.

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tick37

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Confidence is being confident without having to put other people down to have it, and that gives you your swagger.

****iness has to have someone to put down in order to feel better which is not the same as confidence.

Confidence comes from within.

****iness and arrogance come externally.


I the mention of swagger though. Good play on words!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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