Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
bradd80 said:evan,
iv'e been doing the martial arts since i was in my late teens. I was never one of those guys who was into the martial arts and stuff like that, but i enjoyed it as much as weightlifting it was like once i started i didn't want to stop.
It kept me off of drugs in a neighbourhood that was full of weed and coke. It helped me remain focused, and i was able to stay in school where i ended up getting very far both academically and professionally.
In short, I can't credit the martial arts enough for keeping me out of trouble, keeping me fit, and helping make me a successful man overall. I can't recommend it enough, at any age.
Now I started out with stuff like taekwondo, kickboxing, and muay thai. I was young, so I was really into learning the beautiful high spinning hook kicks to the head. I moved on to other stuff like shaolin gung fu, jiujiutsu, and ninjitsu. With all the stuff I learned I could have been a professional bouncer instead of a lawyer lol but what i'm saying is i've tried a lot of these arts for extended periods of time so i know quite a bit about them.
These arts are best begun when you're young, it's true. But only if you plan on becoming an olympic gold medalist. Judo is an art that you can start at any age and it will still come in very handy. Believe me, if you stick with it you will NOT be disappointed. Try out a bunch of different clubs in the Toronto area, lots of them offer free classes or even a month so take advantage. Also compare prices, and do the research to make sure you get the best teachers possible.
One thing about judo: like jiujiutsu, it's a kind of "watered down" version of battlefield hand to hand combat that, similar to arts such as taekwondo, muay thai, and MMA grappling, is geared more towards sport. So a lot of the techniques you learn will be "safer" because they are mostly meant for sport purposes. This is not to say that these are some pretty serious fvcking fighting styles, i'm just saying if you want a more hands on street combat effective style you're better going with ninjitsu or krav maga.
ninjas were poor peasants who lived in fuedal japan many centuries ago, what you see now with people wearing black ski masks and doing acrobatics is people selling you a product based on hollywood movies any school you see selling ninjitsu is a mcdojo in my opinionScottMustaine said:I found one cool club in my city which doesn't charge a hell lot of money for training. It's Ninjitsu.
Should I go up for it. Will it be useful , or it's going to be only a martial 'art' ?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.