"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SeymourCake

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Is it normal that I have the mindset that every pretty 18-25 I walk pass has that urge and tendency to want to know me, have fun and fvck? Is my confidence an illusion or am I ****y? I feel like women find me handsome and they see the potential I could be just by a certain posture, the way I walk, and look I have.

Don't get me wrong. I still approach women. I just give them a slice of the cake, and have them hungry for more. :)

I admit...I'm thinking I'm ego-centric but oh well...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oh yeah, that's when you are cute and radiate confidence, allure, etc. I had 3 different grannies chat me up at the supermarket today... no hotties around.

Why? dont know-something about me they like.
 

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Three grannies? lol wut
 

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Need more opinions on this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you're results speak for itself, then you are not ****y. But if you are rejected left and right, then yes you are an idiot.
 

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write down everything you say and do, study your self in the mirror, write that down too. Then try and sell a book about it..
 
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