"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is something wrong with me or...

SeymourCake

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Is it normal that I have the mindset that every pretty 18-25 I walk pass has that urge and tendency to want to know me, have fun and fvck? Is my confidence an illusion or am I ****y? I feel like women find me handsome and they see the potential I could be just by a certain posture, the way I walk, and look I have.

Don't get me wrong. I still approach women. I just give them a slice of the cake, and have them hungry for more. :)

I admit...I'm thinking I'm ego-centric but oh well...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PapiChulo

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Oh yeah, that's when you are cute and radiate confidence, allure, etc. I had 3 different grannies chat me up at the supermarket today... no hotties around.

Why? dont know-something about me they like.
 

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Three grannies? lol wut
 

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Need more opinions on this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you're results speak for itself, then you are not ****y. But if you are rejected left and right, then yes you are an idiot.
 

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write down everything you say and do, study your self in the mirror, write that down too. Then try and sell a book about it..
 
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