I can't approach a Freshman girl that I like. On top of that, she seems to have a group of Sophomore friends (like me), none of which I know. So on top of her and her firend following each other everywhere, she sometimes talks to Sophomores I don't know. I know some Freshman girls that probably know her, but it's not DJ to set stuff up. Any advice?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is something wrong with me? Depressed...
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Zerotwoonenine
Senior Don Juan
read and practice DJ skills, go read hall of fame, sign up to DJ newsletters and practice on girls you meet on random, becoming a master DJ is not on night thing done by a few tricks, DJ is a lifestyle you must adopt and you must have a inner game before you can actually become successful with the ladies.
Hope you get better, remember, be patient and practice, soon you will get the drift.
Hope you get better, remember, be patient and practice, soon you will get the drift.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
That's PERFECT. Hangout with the Freshman Girls that know her. Eventually, she is bound to your group. When she does, it's an easy way of meeting her.Nobody said:
A simple opener when she joins your group would be "Hey, I don't think I've seen you around. What's your name?"
Then take it from there.
Read the Conversation Section in The DJ Bible. Also, do a search for Nouning. Then you should be set.
Good Luck and Make Sure to Report Back!
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