"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is smoking ruining my game?

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Ok. Birthday day, new resolutuion day.

I wanna quit smoking... really. But not for health reasons, I'm too nonchalant to care about that.

I need to know just how smoking is affecting me nagatively, in regards to gettng girls. :D Make stuff up! I don't care, I just wanna quit. Tomorrow, when my hangover passes and I ckeck back in here, I expect a good few replies. :D

Right now, the onyl reason I can think of is because my breath smells bad when I kiss. But I always carry mints or gum around - so I don't see how that's a major problem. :(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Add to it the heart disease, cancer risks etc and you're making a good choice.

Cigarettes only take your focus off the game - running around asking for a lighter maybe a good way of breaking the ice, but it's not really healthy. Then you spend most your time fixated around the cigarette. You don't need to hold something in your hand, you should be distraction enough for the ladies.

Plus I'm bitter since someone stabbed me in the lip with a cigarette last night whilst clubbing! :- (
 

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Nah, it's ruining your health AND your game.


P.S. Smoking makes you smell like sh1t. Girls don't want to date sh1t.
 

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Yeah, Girls dont like guys that smoke because of that nasty smell... There just drawn to smokers because there mostly bad boys.
 

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when you smoke, the nicotine makes your hands and fingers tremble a little (don't believe me? try it.) and that can show a girl your nervous and shakey. Also, I think they make it harder for me to focus and come up with funny stuff to say.

And the smell really is a HUGE turnoff.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yea, thats why If I am out..I wont take any type of thermogenic..

ephedra, caffiene, taurine..because I dont want to appear nervous!

smoking can make u look gittery and nervous as well.
 

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Besides yellow teeth and fingers and oily skin, Theres death
 

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I don't smoke and hated smoking... whenever I get out of a club my clothes stink like ashtray. I do advice u to quit smoking.

Only good side I see is that it's part of a smoker's social circle, It make them feel your part of the group because when one person go smoking * almost * every smoker friend goes together. But hey! Be smart, If they want to kill them self, it doesn’t mean you have to do the same. So I usually stay behind and chill until they come back.


Sorry for the bad grammer




:D
 

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Like I've said before, just because you see hawt girls smoking doesn't mean you have to do it.

STOP smoking, not only do you have bad breath, but yellow teeth, an ugly tongue, and lung problems.

Just keep a lighter for you so you can pick up hawt girls who do smoke.
 

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exactly, the last post hit it right on the head.

I might smoke socially or whatever, but I don't smoke regularly because it makes you smell like smoke and thats a turnoff to alot of girls.

But there are some hot girls that smoke, and you get asked for a light more than you would think. Its a good idea to keep a nice zippo or windproof lighter in your pocket for just these occasions.

Its a great way to startup a convo.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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smoking

A lot of attractive women smoke cigs as well. Especially at trendy places like bars and nightclubs.
Who cares. Unless you are worried about your health don't quit.

I smoked for 10 years and now I smoke once a week because I lost a lot of energy. Smoking is also bad for your sexually apparently. I am sure inhaling hot smoke can't be good for anything.
 

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eh... yea smoking is bad so dont start


but if you do and can't stop, look at the bright side...
girls always ask for cigs or a light or somin... so its a good way to meet girls

"Hey wanna go smoke a cig"

etc
 
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