"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is smoking ruining my game?

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Ok. Birthday day, new resolutuion day.

I wanna quit smoking... really. But not for health reasons, I'm too nonchalant to care about that.

I need to know just how smoking is affecting me nagatively, in regards to gettng girls. :D Make stuff up! I don't care, I just wanna quit. Tomorrow, when my hangover passes and I ckeck back in here, I expect a good few replies. :D

Right now, the onyl reason I can think of is because my breath smells bad when I kiss. But I always carry mints or gum around - so I don't see how that's a major problem. :(
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Add to it the heart disease, cancer risks etc and you're making a good choice.

Cigarettes only take your focus off the game - running around asking for a lighter maybe a good way of breaking the ice, but it's not really healthy. Then you spend most your time fixated around the cigarette. You don't need to hold something in your hand, you should be distraction enough for the ladies.

Plus I'm bitter since someone stabbed me in the lip with a cigarette last night whilst clubbing! :- (
 

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Nah, it's ruining your health AND your game.


P.S. Smoking makes you smell like sh1t. Girls don't want to date sh1t.
 

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Yeah, Girls dont like guys that smoke because of that nasty smell... There just drawn to smokers because there mostly bad boys.
 

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when you smoke, the nicotine makes your hands and fingers tremble a little (don't believe me? try it.) and that can show a girl your nervous and shakey. Also, I think they make it harder for me to focus and come up with funny stuff to say.

And the smell really is a HUGE turnoff.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yea, thats why If I am out..I wont take any type of thermogenic..

ephedra, caffiene, taurine..because I dont want to appear nervous!

smoking can make u look gittery and nervous as well.
 

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Besides yellow teeth and fingers and oily skin, Theres death
 

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I don't smoke and hated smoking... whenever I get out of a club my clothes stink like ashtray. I do advice u to quit smoking.

Only good side I see is that it's part of a smoker's social circle, It make them feel your part of the group because when one person go smoking * almost * every smoker friend goes together. But hey! Be smart, If they want to kill them self, it doesn’t mean you have to do the same. So I usually stay behind and chill until they come back.


Sorry for the bad grammer




:D
 

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Like I've said before, just because you see hawt girls smoking doesn't mean you have to do it.

STOP smoking, not only do you have bad breath, but yellow teeth, an ugly tongue, and lung problems.

Just keep a lighter for you so you can pick up hawt girls who do smoke.
 

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exactly, the last post hit it right on the head.

I might smoke socially or whatever, but I don't smoke regularly because it makes you smell like smoke and thats a turnoff to alot of girls.

But there are some hot girls that smoke, and you get asked for a light more than you would think. Its a good idea to keep a nice zippo or windproof lighter in your pocket for just these occasions.

Its a great way to startup a convo.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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smoking

A lot of attractive women smoke cigs as well. Especially at trendy places like bars and nightclubs.
Who cares. Unless you are worried about your health don't quit.

I smoked for 10 years and now I smoke once a week because I lost a lot of energy. Smoking is also bad for your sexually apparently. I am sure inhaling hot smoke can't be good for anything.
 

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eh... yea smoking is bad so dont start


but if you do and can't stop, look at the bright side...
girls always ask for cigs or a light or somin... so its a good way to meet girls

"Hey wanna go smoke a cig"

etc
 
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