"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is skinnyguy good for intermediate lifters?

Matt Rogers

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Hi,
I am an intermediate lifter, squatting around 200lbs, deadlifting around 200lbs, dipping for reps, and shoulder pressing around 80lbs for reps.

What can skinnyguy add for a guy like me? I know how to perform the exercises. I know all about training intensely but not too often to allow muscles time to recover. I also know you have to eat an awful lot to gain muscle. But I have never gained like 30lbs in three months. I gained that in my first year followed by around 15lbs in my seconds but since then my gains have slowed down.

If I understand correctly all his program is is a three day split doing around 4 sets for 1-2 exercises for each bodypart and keeping reps to around 4-8 reps.

What other value added does he provide in his program which makes it worthwhile
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's nothing amazingly revolutionary.

Compound movements, lots of carbs, lots of protein, healthy fats, training balls to the wall, getting 9 hours sleep a day, eating 6 meals a day, whey protein.

If you're doing all of the above, you're on track.
 

Matt Rogers

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Yeah, sounds pretty much what I have been doing in the past.

Interestingly the diets he listed on his site seemed a bit paltry. I had to eat 4000 calories a day just to gain a 1lb a week of muscle and maintain on around 3000 a day. His gaining diet seemed to be around 2400 calories
 

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Yeah, I know what you mean.

I was on a 4000kcal bulk. Not only that, but it's the only thing that kept me energized between workouts.

Sounds like your gains have been normal. When you hit a 2-3 year in bodybuilding, everything slows... welcome to REAL bodybuilding :)

Gloves are off pal, it's consistancy from here on in.
 

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You can't gain 1 pound of muscle a week. 1 pound a month is already extraordinary. Just maintain your intensity and it will pay off. Slim guys simply progress a little slower.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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