Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is skinnyguy good for intermediate lifters?

Matt Rogers

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Hi,
I am an intermediate lifter, squatting around 200lbs, deadlifting around 200lbs, dipping for reps, and shoulder pressing around 80lbs for reps.

What can skinnyguy add for a guy like me? I know how to perform the exercises. I know all about training intensely but not too often to allow muscles time to recover. I also know you have to eat an awful lot to gain muscle. But I have never gained like 30lbs in three months. I gained that in my first year followed by around 15lbs in my seconds but since then my gains have slowed down.

If I understand correctly all his program is is a three day split doing around 4 sets for 1-2 exercises for each bodypart and keeping reps to around 4-8 reps.

What other value added does he provide in his program which makes it worthwhile
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's nothing amazingly revolutionary.

Compound movements, lots of carbs, lots of protein, healthy fats, training balls to the wall, getting 9 hours sleep a day, eating 6 meals a day, whey protein.

If you're doing all of the above, you're on track.
 

Matt Rogers

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Yeah, sounds pretty much what I have been doing in the past.

Interestingly the diets he listed on his site seemed a bit paltry. I had to eat 4000 calories a day just to gain a 1lb a week of muscle and maintain on around 3000 a day. His gaining diet seemed to be around 2400 calories
 

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Yeah, I know what you mean.

I was on a 4000kcal bulk. Not only that, but it's the only thing that kept me energized between workouts.

Sounds like your gains have been normal. When you hit a 2-3 year in bodybuilding, everything slows... welcome to REAL bodybuilding :)

Gloves are off pal, it's consistancy from here on in.
 

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You can't gain 1 pound of muscle a week. 1 pound a month is already extraordinary. Just maintain your intensity and it will pay off. Slim guys simply progress a little slower.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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