"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is skinny and awkward the male curse?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How about you head over to the Health and Fitness forum to remove those curse. You have the ability to control both, so I don't see how it's a curse.
 
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no..a lot of beautiful girls like skinny guys. just like some guys like fat girls.
 
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Just don't be 'skinny fat' and limit the level of awkwardness, you will be fine.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you can easily get rid of those things. hit the gym so you wont be skinny anymore. the confidence you gain from being fit will naturally make you less awkward.
 
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Curse...what a word.

Saying you have a curse is just a copout way of saying, "I don't have the power to change this." when in all truth, yes you do.

You just have to chose to change it. You don't want to be skinny? I did personal training for 4 years, I've seen people choose not to be skinny anymore.

You don't want to be awkward anymore? Great, I've seen coaches bring out the charisma in people. You just have to make that choice.

So, what's it gonna be?
 
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Everyone here is telling you the same thing .......and they are right....

Get off your ass and start working on yourself....

What you are worring yourself about is one of the easier things you can change about yourself.....

Get thyself to thy gym young man...bulk up

Over and Out.
 
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Spartan301 said:
You don't want to be awkward anymore? Great, I've seen coaches bring out the charisma in people.
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So there are coaches for anti-awkwardness? Where can I find one of these coaches? What should I search for? Are they cheap?
 
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Ah, OP. This is the easiest case I've possibly taken here.

Get off of your goddamn ass and improve yourself. Quit whining. Your claim is dismissed.

Leave my courtroom and work on yourself. Game, clothes, personality, do whatever it takes.

Case closed.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'll tell you how it is: It's not. It becomes a curse when (like in my case) you don't have any willpower and courage to change anything in you. There's nowhere to go when you lack those two traits, no way around it. You can't change that willpower because in order to do so you need the willpower and the courage to change.
 
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