"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is skinny and awkward the male curse?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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L B

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How about you head over to the Health and Fitness forum to remove those curse. You have the ability to control both, so I don't see how it's a curse.
 

xdreamz

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no..a lot of beautiful girls like skinny guys. just like some guys like fat girls.
 

ThreeStorms

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Just don't be 'skinny fat' and limit the level of awkwardness, you will be fine.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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actionjaxson

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you can easily get rid of those things. hit the gym so you wont be skinny anymore. the confidence you gain from being fit will naturally make you less awkward.
 

Spartan301

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Curse...what a word.

Saying you have a curse is just a copout way of saying, "I don't have the power to change this." when in all truth, yes you do.

You just have to chose to change it. You don't want to be skinny? I did personal training for 4 years, I've seen people choose not to be skinny anymore.

You don't want to be awkward anymore? Great, I've seen coaches bring out the charisma in people. You just have to make that choice.

So, what's it gonna be?
 

boomerick

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Everyone here is telling you the same thing .......and they are right....

Get off your ass and start working on yourself....

What you are worring yourself about is one of the easier things you can change about yourself.....

Get thyself to thy gym young man...bulk up

Over and Out.
 

lazikia

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Spartan301 said:
You don't want to be awkward anymore? Great, I've seen coaches bring out the charisma in people.
So there are coaches for anti-awkwardness? Where can I find one of these coaches? What should I search for? Are they cheap?
 

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Ah, OP. This is the easiest case I've possibly taken here.

Get off of your goddamn ass and improve yourself. Quit whining. Your claim is dismissed.

Leave my courtroom and work on yourself. Game, clothes, personality, do whatever it takes.

Case closed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Nygard

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I'll tell you how it is: It's not. It becomes a curse when (like in my case) you don't have any willpower and courage to change anything in you. There's nowhere to go when you lack those two traits, no way around it. You can't change that willpower because in order to do so you need the willpower and the courage to change.
 
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