"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is skinny and awkward the male curse?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How about you head over to the Health and Fitness forum to remove those curse. You have the ability to control both, so I don't see how it's a curse.
 
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no..a lot of beautiful girls like skinny guys. just like some guys like fat girls.
 
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Just don't be 'skinny fat' and limit the level of awkwardness, you will be fine.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you can easily get rid of those things. hit the gym so you wont be skinny anymore. the confidence you gain from being fit will naturally make you less awkward.
 
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Curse...what a word.

Saying you have a curse is just a copout way of saying, "I don't have the power to change this." when in all truth, yes you do.

You just have to chose to change it. You don't want to be skinny? I did personal training for 4 years, I've seen people choose not to be skinny anymore.

You don't want to be awkward anymore? Great, I've seen coaches bring out the charisma in people. You just have to make that choice.

So, what's it gonna be?
 
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Everyone here is telling you the same thing .......and they are right....

Get off your ass and start working on yourself....

What you are worring yourself about is one of the easier things you can change about yourself.....

Get thyself to thy gym young man...bulk up

Over and Out.
 
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Spartan301 said:
You don't want to be awkward anymore? Great, I've seen coaches bring out the charisma in people.
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So there are coaches for anti-awkwardness? Where can I find one of these coaches? What should I search for? Are they cheap?
 
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Ah, OP. This is the easiest case I've possibly taken here.

Get off of your goddamn ass and improve yourself. Quit whining. Your claim is dismissed.

Leave my courtroom and work on yourself. Game, clothes, personality, do whatever it takes.

Case closed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'll tell you how it is: It's not. It becomes a curse when (like in my case) you don't have any willpower and courage to change anything in you. There's nowhere to go when you lack those two traits, no way around it. You can't change that willpower because in order to do so you need the willpower and the courage to change.
 
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