"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is Significant Self Improvement Confidence?

LegendBoy

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Well that is the question I am proposing for discussion has anyone here financially, physically improved and still not seen extra confidence rub off in the interactions and in the process increased the success with woman.

Is there really anyone who has IMPROVED and not gotten better results. I mean real good improvements like fattt fucckkk to mad body/good body.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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danielzxc

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I was always pretty skinny (in an athletic kind of way) and used to pretty good with chicks. Since I got out of the game a few years ago, my confidence has gone to almost zero. But in that time, I have built a fairly "mad" body - I'm one of the bigger non-juicing people at the gym, and I'm just starting a cut that will take me down about 5-6kg and get me fairly ripped. Focusing on how it's gonna look when I'm finished (I've gotten ripped b4, so I have a rough idea, but I'll be bigger too) is definitely making me feel better about myself, which improves confidence. But like the guy above said, real confidence with girls comes from experience.
 

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LegendBoy said:
Well that is the question I am proposing for discussion has anyone here financially, physically improved and still not seen extra confidence rub off in the interactions and in the process increased the success with woman.

Is there really anyone who has IMPROVED and not gotten better results. I mean real good improvements like fattt fucckkk to mad body/good body.
Confidence is not improvement. Confidence is a belief in your potential to improve. Improvement...LASTING improvement...follows confidence, not vice versa.
 
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