"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is showing a "d1ck pic" a form of peacocking that actually works?

MatureDJ

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Reading about yet another congressman who was showing women his genitalia, I got thinking:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/powe...345862-cf10-11e7-a1a3-0d1e45a6de3d_story.html

Is this really a form of peacocking that actually works? I suppose that much like sp3rm, a man could simply show his pics off to many women, and a woman who is freaky enough could agree to sex him. OR perhaps this is just the internet form of the creepy flasher?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sph21

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No. Because women don't think like men. Men are attracted to physical beauty. Women need more than that.

My girl friend was so happy to see a total stranger showed her his muscular body and then feeling so traumatic when later he showed her his d!ck.
 

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The ONLY time I have ever sent a woman a picture of my schlong is when 1) she and I have been seeing each other or are FWBs, are both horny, and can't be together at the present time AND 2) She agrees to send me pictures of her cooter in return. To just send one to a woman to 'strut my stuff' and try to win her into my bedroom, that would be a no, a hell no, a no fvcking way, and a never.
 

wifehunter

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The ONLY time I have ever sent a woman a picture of my schlong is when 1) she and I have been seeing each other or are FWBs, are both horny, and can't be together at the present time AND 2) She agrees to send me pictures of her cooter in return. To just send one to a woman to 'strut my stuff' and try to win her into my bedroom, that would be a no, a hell no, a no fvcking way, and a never.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No, don't ever do it.
 
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