"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is showing a "d1ck pic" a form of peacocking that actually works?

MatureDJ

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Reading about yet another congressman who was showing women his genitalia, I got thinking:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/powe...345862-cf10-11e7-a1a3-0d1e45a6de3d_story.html

Is this really a form of peacocking that actually works? I suppose that much like sp3rm, a man could simply show his pics off to many women, and a woman who is freaky enough could agree to sex him. OR perhaps this is just the internet form of the creepy flasher?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sph21

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No. Because women don't think like men. Men are attracted to physical beauty. Women need more than that.

My girl friend was so happy to see a total stranger showed her his muscular body and then feeling so traumatic when later he showed her his d!ck.
 

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The ONLY time I have ever sent a woman a picture of my schlong is when 1) she and I have been seeing each other or are FWBs, are both horny, and can't be together at the present time AND 2) She agrees to send me pictures of her cooter in return. To just send one to a woman to 'strut my stuff' and try to win her into my bedroom, that would be a no, a hell no, a no fvcking way, and a never.
 

wifehunter

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The ONLY time I have ever sent a woman a picture of my schlong is when 1) she and I have been seeing each other or are FWBs, are both horny, and can't be together at the present time AND 2) She agrees to send me pictures of her cooter in return. To just send one to a woman to 'strut my stuff' and try to win her into my bedroom, that would be a no, a hell no, a no fvcking way, and a never.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No, don't ever do it.
 
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