"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is she worth it to pursue ?

Wiesman44

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Met this girl at a party a few weeks ago. Gamed her VERY good, made out, flirted a lot. We hung out once, had a great date. Only problem was she broke up w/ her boyfriend of 1 yr like 2 weeks ago.

She claims its 'tougher for girls to get over guys, rather than vice versa'. I know she's having a tough time getting over him. She broke up w/ him b/c he didnt care enough about her, or so she says. She claims there's a lot of drama in her life at the moment, w/ friends throwing their problems on her, and possibly ex problems (just guessing)??


We've talked on the phone for an hour a few nights ago, and I know she has 2 jobs and has minimal time to hang out. She still called me Friday and said she got Saturday off and she wants to hang out.

Of course she just texted me and said "she had rough night, and is not feeling very well (at 9am i might add ! ) and is not up for plans today.


I'm dating another girl at the moment, but she's really just for a$$. So i dont have too much of a problem finding women. This girl has the type of personality I've been looking for in a girl. I've dated a bunch of girls this summer, and I guess I haven't really found any good ones that were worth keeping until now.

AM i blinded by the fact that I finally found a sweet, gorgeous hb8.5 girl, but one that might have baggage or is confused......who knows


What do u all reckon I do in this situation ? If you say next, please tell me why. I want to pursue her, but then again, there's so many strikes against me. SHe works too much, and just got out of a relationship.......

aaahhhh help.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MacDiddy

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Every decent piece of meat is worth pursuing, but you need to set your tolerance levels... How much effort and cost both physical and mental you are willing to put out.. The Challenge is to score and if you're enjoying the pursuit without losing self--respect or puting it at risk, then by al means... carry on!!!

So what about her mental baggage, she says one thing, you totally disregard it and continue to game her...
So what if she gets full on... just NEXT her!!!

Remember, there is no such thing as you having finally found someone sweet...as if your only chance of lifetime happiness is all tied up with this single chick. Its a big pond out there...
 
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