"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is she worth it to pursue ?

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Wiesman44

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Met this girl at a party a few weeks ago. Gamed her VERY good, made out, flirted a lot. We hung out once, had a great date. Only problem was she broke up w/ her boyfriend of 1 yr like 2 weeks ago.

She claims its 'tougher for girls to get over guys, rather than vice versa'. I know she's having a tough time getting over him. She broke up w/ him b/c he didnt care enough about her, or so she says. She claims there's a lot of drama in her life at the moment, w/ friends throwing their problems on her, and possibly ex problems (just guessing)??


We've talked on the phone for an hour a few nights ago, and I know she has 2 jobs and has minimal time to hang out. She still called me Friday and said she got Saturday off and she wants to hang out.

Of course she just texted me and said "she had rough night, and is not feeling very well (at 9am i might add ! ) and is not up for plans today.


I'm dating another girl at the moment, but she's really just for a$$. So i dont have too much of a problem finding women. This girl has the type of personality I've been looking for in a girl. I've dated a bunch of girls this summer, and I guess I haven't really found any good ones that were worth keeping until now.

AM i blinded by the fact that I finally found a sweet, gorgeous hb8.5 girl, but one that might have baggage or is confused......who knows


What do u all reckon I do in this situation ? If you say next, please tell me why. I want to pursue her, but then again, there's so many strikes against me. SHe works too much, and just got out of a relationship.......

aaahhhh help.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Every decent piece of meat is worth pursuing, but you need to set your tolerance levels... How much effort and cost both physical and mental you are willing to put out.. The Challenge is to score and if you're enjoying the pursuit without losing self--respect or puting it at risk, then by al means... carry on!!!

So what about her mental baggage, she says one thing, you totally disregard it and continue to game her...
So what if she gets full on... just NEXT her!!!

Remember, there is no such thing as you having finally found someone sweet...as if your only chance of lifetime happiness is all tied up with this single chick. Its a big pond out there...
 
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