Is she trying to keep me a secret?

[Visionist]

Goes from alpha genes at 22 and at 32 its alpha provider.

Bad Boys for the thrill and nice guys for the bill.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

thanks you’re right. I was angry with her so I just kept yelling at her to shut the f^ck up and that she was an idiot. That was another time when we didn’t speak for 3 weeks. She said was tired of being disrespected and me being jerk. Later on when I brought up not being posted I felt bad for a second with the whole “until we’re more stable” line she gave me...No she’s just didn’t want to lose her social media image. I get it now, thanks.

Classy bro. Why give a **** if she uploads a picture of you? It's a picture. Keep calling her an idiot, I'm sure it'll help. You getting to the point of rage makes you look extremely weak and shows you care way too much. Maybe start by showing some respect to her. You should be dominant, but not trashy. Disappearing on your girlfriend for however many weeks and calling her an idiot isn't the behaviour you want to partake in if you're in what seems to be an exclusive relationship. Some of the boys on this forum man... I bet you think you were "alpha" as **** aswell when you were insulting her. Remember the rule about the loudest guy in the room.

Anyway seems to me like this relationship is dead in the water. You killed it with your neediness over a picture and your random rage fits.

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

I disagree with this. "Nice game formula" If she is breaking your boundries. Show your disgust. Do not scream. Do not touch her...but by all means let her know you are disgusted and kick her to the curb.
If it is severe enough by all means. If your able. Fck her sister. If her mom is hot well that's fair game too. Just do not freak out. Be calm and spin if she is disrespecting you.
This man speaks of "nice game" and does not work. + EVER

Respecting someone doesn't mean being nice. How did she break his boundaries? It's a picture for christ sakes. He's a needy mess. Always respect your -girlfriend- until she gives you a reason not to. You can be perfectly 'alpha' without being a massive ****head. Jerks aren't alpha mate. Do I punish my girlfriend if she does something I don't like? Hell yeah but I dont scream at her. I tell her not to do something and she respects me enough not to do it again. Overreacting is literally the weakest **** one can do. Pressure situations are an ideal way to show how confident you are. Instead of screaming and calling her all kindsa **** he should've just walked because that's what a real man does. If you're not happy, walk away. I got no clue where you get the "nice" from.

 

[bizzym]

I disagree with this. "Nice game formula" If she is breaking your boundries. Show your disgust. Do not scream. Do not touch her...but by all means let her know you are disgusted and kick her to the curb.
If it is severe enough by all means. If your able. Fck her sister. If her mom is hot well that's fair game too. Just do not freak out. Be calm and spin if she is disrespecting you.
This man speaks of "nice game" and does not work. + EVER

Yea, but OP admitted that he was yelling, cursing at her, disappearing for weeks at a time, and pretty much disrespecting her BEFORE the issue of posting a picture came up. To that she said she wanted things to be more stable. That sounds like a very logical answer to someone being a d!ck to her.

Again, if the roles were reversed and OP came on here asking what to do about his gf who ghosts him for weeks, yelling and cursing at him, what would we tell him to do?