"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is She Testing Me?

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Hi
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I date with a beautiful girl and she always asks me “no-win situation” questions like “I am looking fat?”, when she knows she looks pretty. I would like to know what to answer to a question like this. I think she is testing me.
I would like to read your ideas, guys.
Giovanni
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Her: Do I look fat?
You: No, you look absolutely georgous... (rolling your eyes)

She won't know if your serious or not. That way you can succesfully dodge the question. There are countless other ways to do this as well.. i'm sure you will figure something out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I hate it when women fish for compliments. If she's really hot neg-hit her and say "Well you can always start going to gym."
 
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"I dunno... do you feel fat?"
 
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The next time she ask if she's fat, say "yes". When she starts to get upset, say " no, I mean P.H.A.T., as in pretty, hot, and tempting". Then, the next time she ask say "yes" again, and when she starts telling you how sweet you are, say "no, I mean you have a developed a few rolls here and there".
 
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Originally posted by superpud
The next time she ask if she's fat, say "yes". When she starts to get upset, say " no, I mean P.H.A.T., as in pretty, hot, and tempting". Then, the next time she ask say "yes" again, and when she starts telling you how sweet you are, say "no, I mean you have a developed a few rolls here and there".
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LOL I like that one never heard that before. :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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*Warning* Attention Ho
 
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