"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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is she still interested?

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alright, i met a girl 2 months ago. we dated for a week, but we broke up after a brief fight. she had to go away for the summer. i called her only twice during the summer, just to keep in touch.

so i figured that shes prolly back by now. so i sent her a text message today saying, "hi! hope everythings good with you and that youve had a good summer. are you in town? would be to fun to meet you... like saturday or friday? what do you reckon?"...

i got a message back saying "hi! thanx my summer has been good. im busy this weekend, however. im going sailing off the coast"



so what do you reckon? is she still interested. the fact that she answered my message is a good thing. but she didnt suggest another day to meet up.

should i call her later during the week or what?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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???

You expect the secrets of the universe to be revealed to you through a text message?

Unlikely. You have to be a skilled writer to create the same kinds of emotions and feelings that voice tone and body language produce, with words on paper or screen.

I wouldn't worry about the sms too much. Just call her, chat a little, and find out what you can there. *sighs* If I had a cent for everytime I saw a guy seeking interpretation of a text message

It's not astrology... and she's prolly just going to the coast, and she had a good summer. :)
 

Dust 2 Dust

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She's definately not interested, but if you wanna play baseball and go for strike 3 then you can ask her out again if you'd like.
 

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Pftttttttt DID SHE EVER CALL YOU?

If she didn’t she’s a lost cause. If a woman’s interested she will call she will even call to much.

Ninja out
 

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Are you one of the dudes that still txt msgs my gf's cell phone after having not talked to her for 6 months with "i'm back in town. how you doin? wanna get 2gether?"

And then repeatedly txt msgs her even after she rarely responds and when she does is progressively meaner because the guy won't get the point even after it being blatantly obvious she has no interest whatsoever especially with the mention of her boyfriend during your brief, awkward conversations?

She has a word for those guys.

"Douche."


.. heh there's another guy who will call her from a different phone just so she'll actually answer the call. :rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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