"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A former FWB of mine is now engaged, but we still keep in touch through text, snapchat, instagram every so often.

I've been more than respectful with keeping my distance and respecting her fiancee.

She was in a play earlier today, and I attended because I support her arts (as she supports my line of work, as a photographer) -- after the show, I walked up, said hello, a brief hug, and congratulated her on the show. The conversation was short lived, and at one point she said "Well, probably should start cleaning up" but says "Good to see you thanks for coming" and touches me on the arm before she leaves.

I've had a suspicion that she developed something for me during our short time together and that I'm a bit of a temptation for her, that perhaps it's harder to be around each other because it stirs up what we had (which was 1.5 years ago)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you're going to break up a engaged girl you better be ready to marry her yourself.

Otherwise what kind of person destroys something beautiful and doesn't build it back up.

Add to this world more than you take.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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