"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it smart to agree to exclusivity this quickly?

Yes and no. It's long distance and we won't see each other than often. We've talked for about a month. She is a catch. If there are issues, the relationship will show it. I figure once she is in a relationship with me, she will let her guard down a bit and show her true self sooner.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So you don’t think his point of high net worth individuals screening for other hnw individuals, as well as those who travel frequently has any validity?

The world looks a lot different in first class vs coach.

Agreed. I think it's hilarious that some here are so inexperienced or used to dating the average end of the spectrum that they think just because I'm dating a girl from across the country there are no other options here. Hint, I've been dating local girls as well. But have also dated 2 girls in Canada and now 2 girls across the US from the HNW dating site. They don't date non certified members and there aren't a lot of us....so we travel to see each other. I went to see some, some came to see me.

Glassyguy usually just attacks me in every thread saying I'm sooooo low value because I "can't get a local girl" except I have. But yeah I'm so low value I have attractive younger 9's and 10's who are wealthy traveling to meet me, lol. Hint, if this girl wanted sex, she could have ANY guy in her town. She didn't fly here just to sex me (though we did). She is looking for a HVM like me.
 
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