"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is she shy or not into me

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AJ84

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So, I did ask the question and got a reply. All I need to say is that if Chris Hemsworth were in the picture she wouldn’t treat him like this, so f*** her.
You’re right, if Chris Hemsworth were in the picture she wouldn’t treat him like that. But be honest, if she wasn’t that attractive you would have treated the situation differently too.

There will also be super hot guys/ girls that have a much easier time getting dates. No purpose is served by being frustrated by that. What can you do about the fact that they are super hot and have it easy? Nothing. But you can increase your chances of meeting hotter girls and having good dates by being the best version of yourself mentally and physically and having your sh*t together. That’s the best place to put your energy, into yourself :).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sangheilios

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This is why you should avoid OLD sites and apps, this woman just sounds painfully awkward and annoying.
 

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From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
1. There is no shy woman. Only interested and not interested.

2. Women who are interested in you won't confuse you.

3. Anything other than a yes with the actions that support it is a no.

4. Mixed signals are negative signals.

5. You are always in competition for any girl, and you're always ONE disagreement, trait, action, or inaction from losing her.

You are someone she wants in some beta role. I'd just next her. Don't waste your time.

A woman sees men as alpha, beta or useless. If beta, dropping her moves you to useless, meaning she can't get any attention or favors from you, and she won't put out for you.

Sadly, she doesn't find you attractive enough to stop being shy.

Case closed. Work on yourself.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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In college, i approached a cute shy chick. My typical approach by skipping the open. Chat her up the way i would having already smashed more than once and nutted on her face.

Shocker. She's smitten. Bitches be crazy. She begins spamming everyone she knows who might have my number. Phat ass tiny blonde. Never had a bf. Strict Catholic Christian parents. We ended up dating once upon a long time ago. She was just weird and married to Jesus which is a deal breaker lol.

Op, shy isnt a excuse.


I lead. She follows or next. Repeat!

Cash is king. Your time is currency to women. Bait and switch. Spam getting girls. Switch targets. You pull back like RooshV says the sec she pulls back, is flake, a ****, etc. The barrier to entree is feminine, submissive, dtf, and aesthetic. Preferably newly 18 ir damn close.
 
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