I’ve been eyeing this chick for a long time and she is very unapproachable. So I had to get through by becoming friends with her best friend. Towards the end of the school year, the best friend invited me to her house to hang out with her and the chick I’ve been eyeing. We all got drunk and we had a great time. By the end of the night I got her number. Come to find out, her best friend tells me later that week that she tried to get my phone number. She also came by my work to kill time? Obviously these are all good signs. When she came by my work, I asked if she wanted to have lunch later that week and she said sure. So I took her out to lunch and hung out for a little bit. Before I took her out, her friend warned me that she is extremely shy and never really had a boyfriend. She also explained that it wouldn’t be a good idea to touch her/kiss her. Lunch went great; she actually opened up and told me a lot of things that normally you don’t hear from someone on a first lunch/date. Later that night, the best friend called me and asked how it went. She later called her up and asked how it went. She said that she didn’t think it was a date. The best friend told me that she’s very naïve, updateable, and unpenetratable. I ignored her friend and still pursued. So I still kept in touch with her. I called her every once in a while. A couple weeks later, I ask her if she wanted to come with me and a couple of friends (that she kind of knows) to a music festival. She came along and while having dinner she was acting weird, somewhat ignoring me. I don’t know how to take that? Is she being very shy/nervous or just playing games. That whole night was awkward so I wasn’t too happy. Thinking that she wanted to go home, out of nowhere while I was dropping her off, she said she wanted to get ice cream. I’m so confused! After getting ice cream, we hung out at her house and talked.
One thing I noticed about her is that every time we talk on the phone; we both have a good closing like have a nice day or something along the lines. But in person, like when I’m dropping her off or I’m leaving her house, it’s very awkward. She acts strange like something went wrong. But when I talk to her on the phone a couple of days later, she’s normal. Plus, I’ve bought her dinner a couple of times and last time we had lunch, she bought mine. Should I take this as a bad sign? I know I am overanalyzing but is this chick being overly shy or trying to give me the hint that she only wants to be friends?? Like what kind of signs should I look for??? Knowing that she’s very shy, her body language to me seems that she’s always nervous/uncomfortable? What should I do at this point?
One thing I noticed about her is that every time we talk on the phone; we both have a good closing like have a nice day or something along the lines. But in person, like when I’m dropping her off or I’m leaving her house, it’s very awkward. She acts strange like something went wrong. But when I talk to her on the phone a couple of days later, she’s normal. Plus, I’ve bought her dinner a couple of times and last time we had lunch, she bought mine. Should I take this as a bad sign? I know I am overanalyzing but is this chick being overly shy or trying to give me the hint that she only wants to be friends?? Like what kind of signs should I look for??? Knowing that she’s very shy, her body language to me seems that she’s always nervous/uncomfortable? What should I do at this point?