"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok, So one observation I've noticed that this site never ever ever talks about is, "qualifying". Not you qualifying yourself to the female, but the female qualifying herself to you.

I use to hang with this natural, this guy was the uber-alpha male. Good looking, great smile, super confident, very charismatic and funny. One thing I noticed about him was he would only bang the hot ones and keep the cute ones. I started to think why? then I realized something, the hot ones typically didn't have **** to offer besides a hot lay. The cute ones he kept around typically had more going for themselves then the hb9's and 10's. Now this isn't true in all cases but for him it was. For instance one girl was a hb7 but she had a great career/townhouse etc etc. The hb9 was a spoiled daddy's girl who only had money in her wallet due to her pops. another hb7.5 (indian girl) also had great things going for herself.

My point gentlmen is this, when you go for these chicks, are you only purusing them because they are hot? I'm not saying you shouldn't go after chicks you like. But I noticed a lot of guys only want to bang a chick cause she is hot. There is saying "FOr every hot chick, there is a guy tired of fuccing her..." to pursue or go soley on a chick for looks is baffonery. If you only trying to ONS,then go ahead, but for something more fruitful a chick has to offer more then just being able to hop on your ****. This is why Paris Hilton would never get the time of day, from me. A lot of you guys think she is hot, (she is average at best, make up does wonder!!) but have you ever heard the broad talk? she is stupider then a turtle trying to cross a freeway durning rush hour.

Gentlmen qualify qualify qualify!!

Happy weekend

-Solo
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just saw the pick up artist, and a future episode this guy approaches...

guy: "hey ladies can I get your opinon..."
hb8: "shut the fcuk up"

^^^rofll, thats harsh, now here is the deal from that little 10 second clip, I qualified 3 things

1. a guy had his arm wrapped around her (thats a no no)
2. She was in the middle of a convo
3. she is total biatch(I woulda superman'd that hoe with an uppercut, hahah just kidding)


Qualifing is so important, this is why I don't understand, when Mystery tells his students, to approach chicks with men. If you qualify properly, you would see that, she is taking. We must stop qualifying on looks alone, and be observant of our surroundings and the sets we approach.

Solo
 

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a couple nights ago

THis chick I met on poff, gave me her number (after only two emails) we texted each other, I found out very quick, that she is looking for "a connection right away" usually I would fend this off but she is 34, A red flag comes up, no not her age, but how a man "has to have this..." or she won't go out on a date. I met her critieria however I'm not feeling this "connection thing" I launch her.....

why?

she isn't qualified

sideline: Gentlmen if a girl is looking for any reason to "launch you" or "next you" do it first, This girl has many options I know this, but none of her options meet her critiera if they did, she wouldnt be single.....think about it
 

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Solomon said:
Ok, So one observation I've noticed that this site never ever ever talks about is, "qualifying". Not you qualifying yourself to the female, but the female qualifying herself to you.

I use to hang with this natural, this guy was the uber-alpha male. Good looking, great smile, super confident, very charismatic and funny. One thing I noticed about him was he would only bang the hot ones and keep the cute ones. I started to think why? then I realized something, the hot ones typically didn't have **** to offer besides a hot lay. The cute ones he kept around typically had more going for themselves then the hb9's and 10's. Now this isn't true in all cases but for him it was. For instance one girl was a hb7 but she had a great career/townhouse etc etc. The hb9 was a spoiled daddy's girl who only had money in her wallet due to her pops. another hb7.5 (indian girl) also had great things going for herself.

My point gentlmen is this, when you go for these chicks, are you only purusing them because they are hot? I'm not saying you shouldn't go after chicks you like. But I noticed a lot of guys only want to bang a chick cause she is hot. There is saying "FOr every hot chick, there is a guy tired of fuccing her..." to pursue or go soley on a chick for looks is baffonery. If you only trying to ONS,then go ahead, but for something more fruitful a chick has to offer more then just being able to hop on your ****. This is why Paris Hilton would never get the time of day, from me. A lot of you guys think she is hot, (she is average at best, make up does wonder!!) but have you ever heard the broad talk? she is stupider then a turtle trying to cross a freeway durning rush hour.

Gentlmen qualify qualify qualify!!

Happy weekend

-Solo

Maybe the cute ones have not shown enough interest in him because of lack of confidence.

A cute friend of mine likes me, but she has not shown enough interest
( so I keep her as a drinking friend), she has to show more interest, that is because I like girls who likes me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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^^^trust me this guy never "lacked confidence"
I saw chicks with their boyfriends, give him his phone number(while the bf stood right next to her)
I saw model chicks approach him when he was with is girlfriend giving him their numbers(while the gf stood right next to him)
I saw him walk out the club with two girls........

These girls were definitely interested but because they didn't have enough to offer besides looks he kept them to the side.....
 

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I meant that the cute ones maybe has lack of confidence , not him......

Yes qualifying is important : )
 
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