"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is She Qualified?

Solomon

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Ok, So one observation I've noticed that this site never ever ever talks about is, "qualifying". Not you qualifying yourself to the female, but the female qualifying herself to you.

I use to hang with this natural, this guy was the uber-alpha male. Good looking, great smile, super confident, very charismatic and funny. One thing I noticed about him was he would only bang the hot ones and keep the cute ones. I started to think why? then I realized something, the hot ones typically didn't have **** to offer besides a hot lay. The cute ones he kept around typically had more going for themselves then the hb9's and 10's. Now this isn't true in all cases but for him it was. For instance one girl was a hb7 but she had a great career/townhouse etc etc. The hb9 was a spoiled daddy's girl who only had money in her wallet due to her pops. another hb7.5 (indian girl) also had great things going for herself.

My point gentlmen is this, when you go for these chicks, are you only purusing them because they are hot? I'm not saying you shouldn't go after chicks you like. But I noticed a lot of guys only want to bang a chick cause she is hot. There is saying "FOr every hot chick, there is a guy tired of fuccing her..." to pursue or go soley on a chick for looks is baffonery. If you only trying to ONS,then go ahead, but for something more fruitful a chick has to offer more then just being able to hop on your ****. This is why Paris Hilton would never get the time of day, from me. A lot of you guys think she is hot, (she is average at best, make up does wonder!!) but have you ever heard the broad talk? she is stupider then a turtle trying to cross a freeway durning rush hour.

Gentlmen qualify qualify qualify!!

Happy weekend

-Solo
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just saw the pick up artist, and a future episode this guy approaches...

guy: "hey ladies can I get your opinon..."
hb8: "shut the fcuk up"

^^^rofll, thats harsh, now here is the deal from that little 10 second clip, I qualified 3 things

1. a guy had his arm wrapped around her (thats a no no)
2. She was in the middle of a convo
3. she is total biatch(I woulda superman'd that hoe with an uppercut, hahah just kidding)


Qualifing is so important, this is why I don't understand, when Mystery tells his students, to approach chicks with men. If you qualify properly, you would see that, she is taking. We must stop qualifying on looks alone, and be observant of our surroundings and the sets we approach.

Solo
 

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a couple nights ago

THis chick I met on poff, gave me her number (after only two emails) we texted each other, I found out very quick, that she is looking for "a connection right away" usually I would fend this off but she is 34, A red flag comes up, no not her age, but how a man "has to have this..." or she won't go out on a date. I met her critieria however I'm not feeling this "connection thing" I launch her.....

why?

she isn't qualified

sideline: Gentlmen if a girl is looking for any reason to "launch you" or "next you" do it first, This girl has many options I know this, but none of her options meet her critiera if they did, she wouldnt be single.....think about it
 

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Solomon said:
Ok, So one observation I've noticed that this site never ever ever talks about is, "qualifying". Not you qualifying yourself to the female, but the female qualifying herself to you.

I use to hang with this natural, this guy was the uber-alpha male. Good looking, great smile, super confident, very charismatic and funny. One thing I noticed about him was he would only bang the hot ones and keep the cute ones. I started to think why? then I realized something, the hot ones typically didn't have **** to offer besides a hot lay. The cute ones he kept around typically had more going for themselves then the hb9's and 10's. Now this isn't true in all cases but for him it was. For instance one girl was a hb7 but she had a great career/townhouse etc etc. The hb9 was a spoiled daddy's girl who only had money in her wallet due to her pops. another hb7.5 (indian girl) also had great things going for herself.

My point gentlmen is this, when you go for these chicks, are you only purusing them because they are hot? I'm not saying you shouldn't go after chicks you like. But I noticed a lot of guys only want to bang a chick cause she is hot. There is saying "FOr every hot chick, there is a guy tired of fuccing her..." to pursue or go soley on a chick for looks is baffonery. If you only trying to ONS,then go ahead, but for something more fruitful a chick has to offer more then just being able to hop on your ****. This is why Paris Hilton would never get the time of day, from me. A lot of you guys think she is hot, (she is average at best, make up does wonder!!) but have you ever heard the broad talk? she is stupider then a turtle trying to cross a freeway durning rush hour.

Gentlmen qualify qualify qualify!!

Happy weekend

-Solo

Maybe the cute ones have not shown enough interest in him because of lack of confidence.

A cute friend of mine likes me, but she has not shown enough interest
( so I keep her as a drinking friend), she has to show more interest, that is because I like girls who likes me.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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^^^trust me this guy never "lacked confidence"
I saw chicks with their boyfriends, give him his phone number(while the bf stood right next to her)
I saw model chicks approach him when he was with is girlfriend giving him their numbers(while the gf stood right next to him)
I saw him walk out the club with two girls........

These girls were definitely interested but because they didn't have enough to offer besides looks he kept them to the side.....
 

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I meant that the cute ones maybe has lack of confidence , not him......

Yes qualifying is important : )
 
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