"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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is she playing mind games??answer the mini poll please

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Been seeing this girl on and off for about 6 months now!! for about the first 4 months or so i really didnt give a fuk becasue i had oneitis with another girl...anways after that was over i decided to give her a chance we started to become a bit more serious!! but recently shes been flaking on me!!

BTW, by no means have i been stalking, hounding or obsessing over her, i have just raised my interest level in her and hers has either dcereased as a result or else shes playing mind games!!??

answer my question please!!!

should i either:

(A) Call her up o her **** and tell her shes being a flake and only wants what she cant have

(B) Next her completly

(C) Next her for now

(D) Delete her number from my phone and wait until she texts me again



btw she is at least a HB 8 and very popular with the lads!! she used to almost obsess over me and said that i was mean to her because i never replied to her texts!! We are both moving up to the same area for university so we will only live about a 10 minutes walk away from each other!! cheers big balls:moon:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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(E) keep her number, focus on something else, call her one day ask her whats up.
 
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exactly.. Imediately delete all those options that involve u losing ur cool.. even though u come accross as not needing her, it still shows that 1) ur acting insecure and 2) like a prick

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For me to answer accurately, i'd need to know specifically what you mean by "seeing her off and own". Need more info.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i would see her when we were both out at our local disco for example, and id be with her all nite facing and all! but at the time i wasnt that interested and if she texted me the next day i wouldnt reply!! this annnoyed her alot and she kept telling my friends she wouldnt go out with me again, but always submitted when she seen me out!lol!

now as i gained interest i feel that she is either losing interest or playin mind games!? and im not sure which one it is!! she has been up at my house a few times and we have went to the cinema etc. Then i decided to play hardball and not contact her for a week! she eventually gave in and texted about a week later, but to be honest we havent been talking much since!! for example, i texted her on monday nite looking to meet up and she never replied, so thats the last contact ive had with her!! is that enough info??
 
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So in other words, you haven't been having sex with her I take it.

Relationships have a natural progression that, quite frankly, end in sex. If you were never getting to that point with her, chances are she was expecting you to take it to that level eventually on either a direct or subconcious level. After 4-6 months of no sex and or you not blatently trying to have sex with her, it becomes pretty clear that she isn't going to be getting it from you any time soon so maybe she's becoming more interested in other guys that might give that to her.

Raising the interest level without delivering the goods actually makes you a tease, and eventually even women tire of being teased.

I'd say try to go all the way with her like NOW, or move on. If you want a friend, other guys make better friends.

I hope you're not too young; I dont want to be encouraging people that are too young to be having sex, lol.

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naw that cant b it because she knows im a horny **** and i talked to her about it before and weve done other stuff just not sex yet!! were only 19 so it will be done soon if she stops flaking!lol
 
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