"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is she playing games?

oneboy21

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There is this girl who i was emailing on a dating site
after 7 or 8 emails i asked we should text/talk each other on phone, and asked for her number, she responded and asked my number instead, i gave it to her she replied and told me she would text when she gets back home.
she didn't
after two days i wrote one more email, i asked her how she was doing and told her i didn't heard from you and every thing is fine.
she replied and told me she lost her contacts and also mine and told me she was not online, in this reply email she didn't asked for my number
Every time i wrote her email she reads replies and deletes it
Is she playing games, i didn't replied to her last email
should i or shouldn't I request all to provide me a good suggestion
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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xdreamz

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when she asks for your number instead? i say the best route is to go a little caveman and just tell her to give you the number. maybe distract with some more talk and then re-word the #close or change the intentions of the approach. either way if you straight up give her your number 99.9% she's not going to call.

it's not really games she's playing, I mean she's giving you some pretty bunk excuses, but at least she's still available to talk.
 

oneboy21

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Thanks

So should I just ignore her email and move on, or try last chance
it's tru that women will be in contact with many men on dating sites
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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slaog

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oneboy21 said:
So should I just ignore her email and move on, or try last chance
it's tru that women will be in contact with many men on dating sites

No need to ignore her. Just know the facts of the situation. If you're bored email her and then delete it after you read it. ;)
 
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