"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is she playing games?

oneboy21

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There is this girl who i was emailing on a dating site
after 7 or 8 emails i asked we should text/talk each other on phone, and asked for her number, she responded and asked my number instead, i gave it to her she replied and told me she would text when she gets back home.
she didn't
after two days i wrote one more email, i asked her how she was doing and told her i didn't heard from you and every thing is fine.
she replied and told me she lost her contacts and also mine and told me she was not online, in this reply email she didn't asked for my number
Every time i wrote her email she reads replies and deletes it
Is she playing games, i didn't replied to her last email
should i or shouldn't I request all to provide me a good suggestion
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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xdreamz

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when she asks for your number instead? i say the best route is to go a little caveman and just tell her to give you the number. maybe distract with some more talk and then re-word the #close or change the intentions of the approach. either way if you straight up give her your number 99.9% she's not going to call.

it's not really games she's playing, I mean she's giving you some pretty bunk excuses, but at least she's still available to talk.
 

oneboy21

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Thanks

So should I just ignore her email and move on, or try last chance
it's tru that women will be in contact with many men on dating sites
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oneboy21 said:
So should I just ignore her email and move on, or try last chance
it's tru that women will be in contact with many men on dating sites

No need to ignore her. Just know the facts of the situation. If you're bored email her and then delete it after you read it. ;)
 
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