im talking to this girl on facebook i like. she is single. i havent seen her in person in a few years, she moved to the next town but not too far away. we had a conversation yesterday on fb, then i asked for her number but she didnt reply back. i know she saw it yesterday. is this a hopeless case and i should move on or keep trying?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
is she not interested?
- Thread starter spang
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
me: whats your number ill text you
no reply...
me: i cant believe you watch duck dynasty that show makes me feel like im losing brain cells.
her: i love it!
me: that means youre a redneck
her:lol
me:got any plans this weekend
her: not much i have to work saturday and sunday though
i thought about asking her to meet up for a drink but it feels like shes nicely telling me to piss off.
no reply...
me: i cant believe you watch duck dynasty that show makes me feel like im losing brain cells.
her: i love it!
me: that means youre a redneck
her:lol
me:got any plans this weekend
her: not much i have to work saturday and sunday though
i thought about asking her to meet up for a drink but it feels like shes nicely telling me to piss off.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
reach right up inside yourself... i mean REALLY dig around there something good and see if you can find some balls floating around. now once located simply tell her that she is coming out for a bit of fun after work on satuday.
but as previously said if you have to ask then chances are she isn't interested.
but as previously said if you have to ask then chances are she isn't interested.
alpha_ash
Senior Don Juan
Waste of time and energy. There have to be better options for you. Go use them!
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Forget her, don't send anything. Her hamster might spin a couple of days/weeks and try to get your attention again. If she doesn't your 100% sure she ain't interested. Both win-win, bein afc and asking out even more will only push her away more. I know it can be hard if u like a chick but going ghost is sometimes and im pretty certain in this case too the best thing you can do coz she already made clear that shes not interested in a date. Btw if you see her in real life, dont mind testing your dj skills and asking for her number ! but on facebook, google+ lifeinvader whatever lol forget it
doneStort_Brød said:
me:well youre gonna come have some fun with me after work saturday how bout that
her: Well I have my cousins birthday party to go to when I get off Saturday
well i can ask about sunday? sigh why bother
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Shes not interested in you. Quit being an optimistic dumb@$$
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
well i give you points for trying for sure man. good job to actually do it instead of remaining an AFC. this is only a suggestion though is next time don't add "how about that" at the end. it isn't what made her say no but it gave her opportunity as it is seeking her approval of the activity.
but anyways broski i would cut your losses and move onto bigger and better things. she is just but one of the many girls that will miss out on whatever wonders you have to offer to their somewhat meaningless life.
but anyways broski i would cut your losses and move onto bigger and better things. she is just but one of the many girls that will miss out on whatever wonders you have to offer to their somewhat meaningless life.
Spang I Love You!!!! Have my babies!!! :crackup:
Tell her your available every night the whole month and ask her when she's available. Make her sign a contract, if she can't make it say my whole calendar just freed up, morning, afternoon, and evenings!! When are you available honey.
Tell her your available every night the whole month and ask her when she's available. Make her sign a contract, if she can't make it say my whole calendar just freed up, morning, afternoon, and evenings!! When are you available honey.
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That is a non-interested attention wh0re who's in another castle. The fact you had to even ask should tell you something.
Case closed. Move on.
Case closed. Move on.