"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is She Looking... Test!

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Is she looking....Test!

If you want to know for sure if a girl is looking at you here is a 'lil trick.
It works best if you make it look very real; if you can actually make it real even better (also can be a good opener starter).

If you think a HB is checking you out and want to know for sure just YAWN! That is right simple as that. Do it again, in a little bit, but keep an eye on her. If she is looking she can't help but to YAWN!

If she YAWNS you Got Her! If she doesn’t give another shot than move on.

If she does YAWN you know two things.
1. She was looking.
2. You have an opener.

To use the opener just walk up and say "This place boring you too. Let’s go somewhere exciting and you can entertain me."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I like it.

Its kinda got some truth to it too. Yawns are contagious. There are lots of things you can say with it as well, if you don't like that one.

It probably helps if its kind of later in the day, so people will be tired. But also.... she may just be yawning of her own accord. I dunno.

Like any technique, you have to decide for yourself.
 

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That is a good point, but what are the chances (unless late at night) that she would yawn right after you do?

You can test this. Go to a social place and yawn when you know somebody is looking at you. It may take two times, but they will Yawn.

I have no Idea why people do this and to tell you the truth I hated it until I thought of this. People would yawn in front of me and I couldn't hold it back.

*off note* The sun makes me sneeze.. Anybody else have this issue?
 

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zerocelcius said:
*off note* The sun makes me sneeze.. Anybody else have this issue?
Yes! Me too. Like when we're driving somewhere, and I get out of the car and its bright outside, I sneeze almost everytime.

Crazy.
 

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What if she was just looking wondering why some creepy guy is staring at her? Why do you need a test to see if she is looking? Follow the 3s rule and go over there and talk to her! Also, yawning shows low energy level which is very unattractive in a high energy venue.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Evo-Psych said:
What if she was just looking wondering why some creepy guy is staring at her? Why do you need a test to see if she is looking? Follow the 3s rule and go over there and talk to her! Also, yawning shows low energy level which is very unattractive in a high energy venue.
Who said anything about High Energy Venue I was thinking Barnes & Nobles.

It is just a tool in the tool box young Patawan!

:yes:
 

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Somehow I missed the part about Barnes & Noble. My bad, but seriously just go talk to her and forget the test or the need for test altogether. The "this place is boring" opener is great if you see her yawn, but I am sure there are a 1000 other things you can say without having to be sure she "likes" you before getting a pair and doing an approach.

zerocelcius said:
It is just a tool in the tool box young Patawan!
That's funny....
 

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Evo-Psych said:
Somehow I missed the part about Barnes & Noble. My bad, but seriously just go talk to her and forget the test or the need for test altogether. The "this place is boring" opener is great if you see her yawn, but I am sure there are a 1000 other things you can say without having to be sure she "likes" you before getting a pair and doing an approach.



That's funny....

You’re Right! There are a Million things you could do, but how do you know she is even interested.

This topic was like the Walk down the street topic... The one where you walk down the street to see who moves out of your way..(Sorry can't remember who posted it)

This is just one of those social tests you can play with.

Appreciate your feedback strong point.
 

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I hear you. Cold daytime approaches are hard and it is easier if you know she is attracted to you. However, I am not Brad Pitt but I know I can win her over with my personality and DHV. I just go and open her and I save my testing for during kino and for compliance.

However, what works for you works for you. Maybe you look more like Brad then me, but I know a lot of guys on here look nothing like him or even if she gives them direct IOIs they still won't go talk to her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mirroring works depending on situation & location.

Lead!
One time i was on the train and me and this girl was sitting face to face. I wasn't into her, but i tested this little experiment. The first few times i moved my arms or put it on different locations of my lap, nothing happened. She had a deer in the headlights look anytime i tried to make EC. Then when i crossed my arm she did it...then I put my hand and 2 fingers around my mouth to kind of rub the sides of it..she did also. after seeing the mirroring i just smirked.

A quick look at your watch has the same effect.
tilting your head to the side works also
 

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Dannyrt34 said:
I'm going to try rubbing my nipples in front of a girl.
Right...you go do that, dont be surprised if you start lactating..:crazy:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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that is why you have to fallow up with this place is boring. Or just laugh 'cause you caught her looking. Not every interaction has to be a close. Most of the time I am just happy that she was diggin on me. :cool:
 

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You ever yawned in a classroom and cause a chain reaction. I've have seen these chain reaction happen its pretty funny, although i wasn't the one who started it, and wouldn't it be a great feeling to have 5 girls yawn after you've just unconsciously yawned.
 

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anybody try this yet? If so how did it go?
 

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lol yawning? lmao

my way of checking if girls are checking me out is (this only works if its a group of girls tho..)

if after having eye contact her friends turn around...its pretty obvious
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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