"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is She Looking... Test!

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Is she looking....Test!

If you want to know for sure if a girl is looking at you here is a 'lil trick.
It works best if you make it look very real; if you can actually make it real even better (also can be a good opener starter).

If you think a HB is checking you out and want to know for sure just YAWN! That is right simple as that. Do it again, in a little bit, but keep an eye on her. If she is looking she can't help but to YAWN!

If she YAWNS you Got Her! If she doesn’t give another shot than move on.

If she does YAWN you know two things.
1. She was looking.
2. You have an opener.

To use the opener just walk up and say "This place boring you too. Let’s go somewhere exciting and you can entertain me."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I like it.

Its kinda got some truth to it too. Yawns are contagious. There are lots of things you can say with it as well, if you don't like that one.

It probably helps if its kind of later in the day, so people will be tired. But also.... she may just be yawning of her own accord. I dunno.

Like any technique, you have to decide for yourself.
 

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That is a good point, but what are the chances (unless late at night) that she would yawn right after you do?

You can test this. Go to a social place and yawn when you know somebody is looking at you. It may take two times, but they will Yawn.

I have no Idea why people do this and to tell you the truth I hated it until I thought of this. People would yawn in front of me and I couldn't hold it back.

*off note* The sun makes me sneeze.. Anybody else have this issue?
 

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zerocelcius said:
*off note* The sun makes me sneeze.. Anybody else have this issue?
Yes! Me too. Like when we're driving somewhere, and I get out of the car and its bright outside, I sneeze almost everytime.

Crazy.
 

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What if she was just looking wondering why some creepy guy is staring at her? Why do you need a test to see if she is looking? Follow the 3s rule and go over there and talk to her! Also, yawning shows low energy level which is very unattractive in a high energy venue.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Evo-Psych said:
What if she was just looking wondering why some creepy guy is staring at her? Why do you need a test to see if she is looking? Follow the 3s rule and go over there and talk to her! Also, yawning shows low energy level which is very unattractive in a high energy venue.
Who said anything about High Energy Venue I was thinking Barnes & Nobles.

It is just a tool in the tool box young Patawan!

:yes:
 

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Somehow I missed the part about Barnes & Noble. My bad, but seriously just go talk to her and forget the test or the need for test altogether. The "this place is boring" opener is great if you see her yawn, but I am sure there are a 1000 other things you can say without having to be sure she "likes" you before getting a pair and doing an approach.

zerocelcius said:
It is just a tool in the tool box young Patawan!
That's funny....
 

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Evo-Psych said:
Somehow I missed the part about Barnes & Noble. My bad, but seriously just go talk to her and forget the test or the need for test altogether. The "this place is boring" opener is great if you see her yawn, but I am sure there are a 1000 other things you can say without having to be sure she "likes" you before getting a pair and doing an approach.



That's funny....

You’re Right! There are a Million things you could do, but how do you know she is even interested.

This topic was like the Walk down the street topic... The one where you walk down the street to see who moves out of your way..(Sorry can't remember who posted it)

This is just one of those social tests you can play with.

Appreciate your feedback strong point.
 

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I hear you. Cold daytime approaches are hard and it is easier if you know she is attracted to you. However, I am not Brad Pitt but I know I can win her over with my personality and DHV. I just go and open her and I save my testing for during kino and for compliance.

However, what works for you works for you. Maybe you look more like Brad then me, but I know a lot of guys on here look nothing like him or even if she gives them direct IOIs they still won't go talk to her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mirroring works depending on situation & location.

Lead!
One time i was on the train and me and this girl was sitting face to face. I wasn't into her, but i tested this little experiment. The first few times i moved my arms or put it on different locations of my lap, nothing happened. She had a deer in the headlights look anytime i tried to make EC. Then when i crossed my arm she did it...then I put my hand and 2 fingers around my mouth to kind of rub the sides of it..she did also. after seeing the mirroring i just smirked.

A quick look at your watch has the same effect.
tilting your head to the side works also
 

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Dannyrt34 said:
I'm going to try rubbing my nipples in front of a girl.
Right...you go do that, dont be surprised if you start lactating..:crazy:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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that is why you have to fallow up with this place is boring. Or just laugh 'cause you caught her looking. Not every interaction has to be a close. Most of the time I am just happy that she was diggin on me. :cool:
 

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You ever yawned in a classroom and cause a chain reaction. I've have seen these chain reaction happen its pretty funny, although i wasn't the one who started it, and wouldn't it be a great feeling to have 5 girls yawn after you've just unconsciously yawned.
 

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anybody try this yet? If so how did it go?
 

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lol yawning? lmao

my way of checking if girls are checking me out is (this only works if its a group of girls tho..)

if after having eye contact her friends turn around...its pretty obvious
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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