"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is she looking for attention or firing back at me?

TheGambino

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We dated twice, great fling, made out etc.

Short background:

Kissed a girl in front of her twice when she acted arrogant and annoying in the club. We been playing games. She liked me thats for sure but it faded when I acted needy and started to grind other girls in her presence.

She told me you probably look for more but she didn't want that(this is after the first f8ck up from me being needy and then when she got arrogant I kissed a girl in front of her, before this she blowed up my phone to see me) Told her that's not true, i bareley know you and that we were done. A week passed and we met again, everything good, we had fun and she texts me that night to join me in the club later (second time I kissed a girl in front of her). After that we briefly texted but we couldnt get together. Now after 3 days of NC she snaps in her story the second time with the same guy. Having fun, going out and him kissing her on her cheek. She throw up the deuces on snap like ''fvck you''.

Whats the play here? NC forever?

You guys are always right, I posted a couple of times about her and you guys told me to go NC forever that it was a lost cause and that she probably had another guy around, well indeed.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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El Payaso

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Date another woman.
 

devilkingx2

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it doesn't really make any sense for her to not like you acting needy, while also having a problem with you kissing other girls

either she wants commitment or she doesn't, i don't get that.

either way it doesn't matter now, you've gotta find another girl
 

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Ditch this bytch and move the hell on! She's not that attractive and you can do much better.

Case closed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She sounds like a lot of drama, even for a chick at the club. Is that the type of woman you like?
 
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