"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is she looking for attention or firing back at me?

TheGambino

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We dated twice, great fling, made out etc.

Short background:

Kissed a girl in front of her twice when she acted arrogant and annoying in the club. We been playing games. She liked me thats for sure but it faded when I acted needy and started to grind other girls in her presence.

She told me you probably look for more but she didn't want that(this is after the first f8ck up from me being needy and then when she got arrogant I kissed a girl in front of her, before this she blowed up my phone to see me) Told her that's not true, i bareley know you and that we were done. A week passed and we met again, everything good, we had fun and she texts me that night to join me in the club later (second time I kissed a girl in front of her). After that we briefly texted but we couldnt get together. Now after 3 days of NC she snaps in her story the second time with the same guy. Having fun, going out and him kissing her on her cheek. She throw up the deuces on snap like ''fvck you''.

Whats the play here? NC forever?

You guys are always right, I posted a couple of times about her and you guys told me to go NC forever that it was a lost cause and that she probably had another guy around, well indeed.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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El Payaso

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Date another woman.
 

devilkingx2

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it doesn't really make any sense for her to not like you acting needy, while also having a problem with you kissing other girls

either she wants commitment or she doesn't, i don't get that.

either way it doesn't matter now, you've gotta find another girl
 

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Ditch this bytch and move the hell on! She's not that attractive and you can do much better.

Case closed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ratiocinative

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She sounds like a lot of drama, even for a chick at the club. Is that the type of woman you like?
 
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