"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is she just an AW?

Jaun_Don

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When to the movies with this cute 21 year old last night and she was all flirty(always twirling her hair) with me tonight and we watched a movie very close together (shoulder to shoulder) and teased each other and both played kino on each other... and when we had to go to the bathroom I held her hand (there and back) ...yada yada...anyways we went back to her place, sat on the couch and I almost kissed her but then she got a call from her BF and went into her room so I walked off and sent her a txt that said "You are gorgeous...No argument"
(she doesn't think she is..but she is)

and she sent me one back that said "why the hell did u leave"?...and isn't replying back to my txts which are just normal ones...

Before we went to the movie she said for me too come out after the movie, and then she looked me and said oh yeah (BF) will be there so you might not want to come but I would really like you too.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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1) Don't tell a girl you have just met she is gorgeous - NEVER! You give compliments sparingly if at all. Your compliment to her is you being with her.
2) Why the hell did you leave?
3) If you want to find out her intentions then try and kiss her when all this kino is going on - then you'll know.
 

Jaun_Don

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Originally posted by flexion_
1) Don't tell a girl you have just met she is gorgeous - NEVER! You give compliments sparingly if at all. Your compliment to her is you being with her.
2) Why the hell did you leave?
3) If you want to find out her intentions then try and kiss her when all this kino is going on - then you'll know.
I haven't just met her, this was the 3rd time we had done something together and she calls me at home and txts me a lot too...I left cos I was like oh great she just went off to talk with her BF, I'm not an idiot and I can take it or leave it...plus it provides a little mystery right.
 

Jaun_Don

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Originally posted by bbestar
you will learn young 260 post padawan..lol
post counts don't mean ****, I spend a lof time answering other people's questions so I can't see how my post count means anything, yes I AM learning...since my last LTR (3 1/2 years) the dating World is different and odd to me, but I am getting my game back and I have a feeling something will happen very soon...even if this chick is an AW she is good practice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AW's need lovin' too :)
 

Tazman

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she was all flirty(always twirling her hair)
I see women do this all the time. In grocery stores, in their cars etc. I wouldn't keep relying on this if I were you. Women love to play with their hair for a variety of reasons, it's not a good indicator of interest in my opinion.
 
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