"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is she just an AW?

Jaun_Don

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When to the movies with this cute 21 year old last night and she was all flirty(always twirling her hair) with me tonight and we watched a movie very close together (shoulder to shoulder) and teased each other and both played kino on each other... and when we had to go to the bathroom I held her hand (there and back) ...yada yada...anyways we went back to her place, sat on the couch and I almost kissed her but then she got a call from her BF and went into her room so I walked off and sent her a txt that said "You are gorgeous...No argument"
(she doesn't think she is..but she is)

and she sent me one back that said "why the hell did u leave"?...and isn't replying back to my txts which are just normal ones...

Before we went to the movie she said for me too come out after the movie, and then she looked me and said oh yeah (BF) will be there so you might not want to come but I would really like you too.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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flexion_

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1) Don't tell a girl you have just met she is gorgeous - NEVER! You give compliments sparingly if at all. Your compliment to her is you being with her.
2) Why the hell did you leave?
3) If you want to find out her intentions then try and kiss her when all this kino is going on - then you'll know.
 

Jaun_Don

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Originally posted by flexion_
1) Don't tell a girl you have just met she is gorgeous - NEVER! You give compliments sparingly if at all. Your compliment to her is you being with her.
2) Why the hell did you leave?
3) If you want to find out her intentions then try and kiss her when all this kino is going on - then you'll know.
I haven't just met her, this was the 3rd time we had done something together and she calls me at home and txts me a lot too...I left cos I was like oh great she just went off to talk with her BF, I'm not an idiot and I can take it or leave it...plus it provides a little mystery right.
 

Jaun_Don

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Originally posted by bbestar
you will learn young 260 post padawan..lol
post counts don't mean ****, I spend a lof time answering other people's questions so I can't see how my post count means anything, yes I AM learning...since my last LTR (3 1/2 years) the dating World is different and odd to me, but I am getting my game back and I have a feeling something will happen very soon...even if this chick is an AW she is good practice.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SlaterT

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AW's need lovin' too :)
 

Tazman

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she was all flirty(always twirling her hair)
I see women do this all the time. In grocery stores, in their cars etc. I wouldn't keep relying on this if I were you. Women love to play with their hair for a variety of reasons, it's not a good indicator of interest in my opinion.
 
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