"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When to the movies with this cute 21 year old last night and she was all flirty(always twirling her hair) with me tonight and we watched a movie very close together (shoulder to shoulder) and teased each other and both played kino on each other... and when we had to go to the bathroom I held her hand (there and back) ...yada yada...anyways we went back to her place, sat on the couch and I almost kissed her but then she got a call from her BF and went into her room so I walked off and sent her a txt that said "You are gorgeous...No argument"
(she doesn't think she is..but she is)

and she sent me one back that said "why the hell did u leave"?...and isn't replying back to my txts which are just normal ones...

Before we went to the movie she said for me too come out after the movie, and then she looked me and said oh yeah (BF) will be there so you might not want to come but I would really like you too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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1) Don't tell a girl you have just met she is gorgeous - NEVER! You give compliments sparingly if at all. Your compliment to her is you being with her.
2) Why the hell did you leave?
3) If you want to find out her intentions then try and kiss her when all this kino is going on - then you'll know.
 
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Originally posted by flexion_
1) Don't tell a girl you have just met she is gorgeous - NEVER! You give compliments sparingly if at all. Your compliment to her is you being with her.
2) Why the hell did you leave?
3) If you want to find out her intentions then try and kiss her when all this kino is going on - then you'll know.
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I haven't just met her, this was the 3rd time we had done something together and she calls me at home and txts me a lot too...I left cos I was like oh great she just went off to talk with her BF, I'm not an idiot and I can take it or leave it...plus it provides a little mystery right.
 
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Originally posted by bbestar
you will learn young 260 post padawan..lol
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post counts don't mean ****, I spend a lof time answering other people's questions so I can't see how my post count means anything, yes I AM learning...since my last LTR (3 1/2 years) the dating World is different and odd to me, but I am getting my game back and I have a feeling something will happen very soon...even if this chick is an AW she is good practice.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AW's need lovin' too :)
 
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she was all flirty(always twirling her hair)
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I see women do this all the time. In grocery stores, in their cars etc. I wouldn't keep relying on this if I were you. Women love to play with their hair for a variety of reasons, it's not a good indicator of interest in my opinion.
 
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