is she itching for attention?

[tharam04]

A lady and I have been off and on dating since like 06 when we weren't dating (due to living in different cities), we still kept in touch but still dating other people. We've gotten up to 2nd base on several occasions in the past, but not more due to other factors (i.e. kids, her living with her parents). I've notice that her communication with me has been picking up more than normal. Then the other day, out of the blue, she picture messages me several pics of her showing off in a bikini.

Was she itching for attention or might she be trying to start another dating round? I think it was attention but wanted to get a 2nd opinion

 

[jarworpar]

It could be many things, bro. How did you respond when she sent you the pics? You said you two have gone to second base, so she is obviously attracted to you. Why not take the initiative by inviting her to your place and feeling her out?

 

[tharam04]

I responded with "see now you just ain't right for teasing me". She replied with "lol" and that was the end. She stays over an hr away from me so us seeing each other at da others request is slim.

 

[xXColdWorld23Xx]

I responded with "see now you just ain't right for teasing me". She replied with "lol" and that was the end. She stays over an hr away from me so us seeing each other at da others request is slim.

tell dat ho 2 maek a sndahwitch or get slapped. btw u speeled responded wrong,

 

[jarworpar]

In that case, why not be more direct? She lives over an hour away, so if she rejects you, who cares (not that it EVER should matter too much)? You should by extra confident because you don't have to see her all the time. I would be bold and direct.

 

[Londonman09]

Shes ovulating and wants some action lol

 

[tharam04]

tell dat ho 2 maek a sndahwitch or get slapped. btw u speeled responded wrong,

My spelling is fine. Check yours first.

In that case, why not be more direct? She lives over an hour away, so if she rejects you, who cares (not that it EVER should matter too much)? You should by extra confident because you don't have to see her all the time. I would be bold and direct.

Guess I should be more direct. Last night I sent her a message saying I know she got more pics that she didn't send. She lol'd at the message and then sent several pics rated beyond PG (if you know what I mean). I asked when I can touch since a picture only does so much. She said we'll have to work something out. After joking wit her I shared pics of myself which she replied with a " :^) ". Will have to see what plays out.

 

[5string]

A lady and I have been off and on dating since like 06 when we weren't dating (due to living in different cities), we still kept in touch but still dating other people. We've gotten up to 2nd base on several occasions in the past, but not more due to other factors (i.e. kids, her living with her parents). I've notice that her communication with me has been picking up more than normal. Then the other day, out of the blue, she picture messages me several pics of her showing off in a bikini.

Was she itching for attention or might she be trying to start another dating round? I think it was attention but wanted to get a 2nd opinion

With all respect, do you really have to ask what to do here?

Step it up and mount her.

 

[dementia]

I remember one part of the game were style is about to get blown in the toilet by a oversexual/confident woman. She said she was really good at sucking **** straight up and he mentions, when a girl is uber-forward, an overly ****y response doesnt get you laid and a come on doesnt get you laid either.. to inwhich he just replied "Respect!" in an indifferent tone. This wouldve worked in your situation because shes sent you saucy pictures while overly confident and you immediately gave her the ego boost she was intending to get. The respect response is indifferent and gives off more of a "thats cool, but maybe a bit tryhard for me" vibe, and doesnt really say how u feel... try it next time.. Let her do that little bit more then ... i duno.. if it were me i might caveman it and say "im coming over now"... if she lived near by and just go... fvck it...no permission nothing.... you always got the "but u sent me nudey pictures on the phone? wtf did you want?"... u have plausible deniability lol