"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is she into me?

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TheNewGuy

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Hey, I've been trying to get this girl for a while now. She's a sophomore, I'm a freshman.

I don't see her much in school, so i'm kinda limited to AIM. I've talked to her a couple times, but it didn't really lead into anything. I'm trying again with the skills I've learned here. This is a summary of my latest convo with her (2 days ago).

(Background: Our school had to be evacuated)
Me: hey
Her: heyy
Me: crazy stuff today, whats happening tomorrow?
Her: lol yeah, crazy... uhh idk sry
Me: we got on the news tho =)
Her: really? what time and what channel?!
... i tell her the time/channel and just sum it up for her...
Me: so what've you been up to lately
Her: nothin, but you just made my day!
Her: you?
Me: heh, I have that affect on some people
Her: ahah, yeah you do
... i tell her a funny story about burger king...
Her: ahah, i have to go there
Me: yeah, we'll have to go there and see
... we talk about vacation, i make some jokes...
... I give her a link to a news story about our evacuation...
Her: wtf is that PON
Her: PRN*
Her: PORN*
Me: 3rd times a charm huh ;)
... I make some neg hits about her "secret life as a porn star", conversation dies...

Most of the convo she was just giving really short answers, with me just ending up going to a new question =/

Sorry if it's a lengthy post, I tried to cut it down as much as possible. So is she into me? The next day I saw her in the hallway and she started giggling... not sure if thats good or bad.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pokie87

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Its hard to tell from that dude. But instead of saying she should be a porn star you should have said ''Ye I can definitely see you in midget porn, you have all the attributes.''
 
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TheNewGuy

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Heh, I didn't really send her porn. She was trying to neg hit me... which I guess was good but then came the silence.

We've been the same since I've posted this, not talking much. Just smalltalk kinda stuff =(

EDIT: Just thought I'd post some more background on the girl. She's friends with the really popular crowd, as in her friends are the ones that date the football captain, etc. It always lowers my confidence when I see her with them, because I know they're the most popular girls in the school.
 
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