"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is she into me?

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TheNewGuy

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Hey, I've been trying to get this girl for a while now. She's a sophomore, I'm a freshman.

I don't see her much in school, so i'm kinda limited to AIM. I've talked to her a couple times, but it didn't really lead into anything. I'm trying again with the skills I've learned here. This is a summary of my latest convo with her (2 days ago).

(Background: Our school had to be evacuated)
Me: hey
Her: heyy
Me: crazy stuff today, whats happening tomorrow?
Her: lol yeah, crazy... uhh idk sry
Me: we got on the news tho =)
Her: really? what time and what channel?!
... i tell her the time/channel and just sum it up for her...
Me: so what've you been up to lately
Her: nothin, but you just made my day!
Her: you?
Me: heh, I have that affect on some people
Her: ahah, yeah you do
... i tell her a funny story about burger king...
Her: ahah, i have to go there
Me: yeah, we'll have to go there and see
... we talk about vacation, i make some jokes...
... I give her a link to a news story about our evacuation...
Her: wtf is that PON
Her: PRN*
Her: PORN*
Me: 3rd times a charm huh ;)
... I make some neg hits about her "secret life as a porn star", conversation dies...

Most of the convo she was just giving really short answers, with me just ending up going to a new question =/

Sorry if it's a lengthy post, I tried to cut it down as much as possible. So is she into me? The next day I saw her in the hallway and she started giggling... not sure if thats good or bad.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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pokie87

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Its hard to tell from that dude. But instead of saying she should be a porn star you should have said ''Ye I can definitely see you in midget porn, you have all the attributes.''
 
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TheNewGuy

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Heh, I didn't really send her porn. She was trying to neg hit me... which I guess was good but then came the silence.

We've been the same since I've posted this, not talking much. Just smalltalk kinda stuff =(

EDIT: Just thought I'd post some more background on the girl. She's friends with the really popular crowd, as in her friends are the ones that date the football captain, etc. It always lowers my confidence when I see her with them, because I know they're the most popular girls in the school.
 
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