Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is she interested?

Drake22

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I really suck at gauging interest levels. There's this girl in my psych class. She is pretty cute (I'd say HB8). Me and her hung out after class once and had some lunch. She has a very sarcastic sense of humour, as do I, so we had a good time making jokes with each other and talking about where we came from (mostly her talking).

It wasn't anything super-suave, just kind of a good time. I don't think I used any kino or anything. We have hung out in class sometimes and talked (mostly to stave off boredom in lecture). I suggested we get together and play NES sometime (I have an NES and she is into that), and it sounded like she agreed. I stopped sitting in the same part of class after a while and she sent me this email:

"I haven't seen you in class this week, either i'm blind or your hiding from me. Either way I haven't said hi...so Hi.

Randomness"

to which I replied

"Nah, I have just been avoiding you like the plague. Sorry, babe, I just can't stand the sight of you....... ;p

Not Quite So Randomness"

and she replied

"totally harsh! fine then...i guess i'll be cool and go back to studying psych"

and I replied (last reply):

"Ah cmon, you know I love ya ;) Have fun studying, im going to have fun sleeping. Later"

That was last night. We have a midterm tomorrow, so I called her up (left a message) and asked her if she wanted to study and play NES. She called back and I didn't answer (I am busy with other homework/distracting myself with forums) and then sent me this online:

"so i called you back slutface...i am enjoying my nintendo all alone (well i would be if i had one)"

Now, I am not sweating over this girl or anything, but is that my clue to call her? Do you think I would have less of a chance or more of a chance if I just didn't say anything to her tonight, and if asked tomorrow simply explained that my homework took longer than expected? Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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joekerr31

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this is beyond immature.

how old are you 12? psych class suggests university.

grow up and find a woman who has grown up as well.

J
 

Drake22

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Should I not gauge interest levels? Is that a bad thing to do? Isn't it in the DJ Bible that I should gauge her interest level before my own? I am simply trying to get advice so that I can better gauge interest levels in women. What suggests my immaturity in my post? I am inexperienced, true (only slept with 3 women), but in order for me to better learn how to gauge interest levels, how else am I to do it, but peer into my experiences with women and gain advice from those more experienced than I (you guys)?
 

Vincent Freeman

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If she likes you, then it doesn't matter if you call her tonight as oppose to tomorrow, she's going to do something with you regardless. And while your at it, refer to the dj bibile in case you have not.
 

DinoCassanova

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Gauge her interest? I'd say she's interested yes. She wanted you over there playing the Nintendo thing or , NES, or whatever it is. Didn't she?? She called you sl^tface. She's into raunchy humour with you. You definitely would have been getting some serious make-out action at the very least if you had gone over there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Freeman

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Originally posted by DinoCassanova
Gauge her interest? I'd say she's interested yes. She wanted you over there playing the Nintendo thing or , NES, or whatever it is. Didn't she?? She called you sl^tface. She's into raunchy humour with you. You definitely would have been getting some serious make-out action at the very least if you had gone over there.

Agreed-I say stop fuc*ing around and get with this chick!


"Turn Fear Into Curiosity"
 

Carioca123

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There's no doubt she's interested. Ive noticed in alot cases when a girl is interested she will respond with a ****y/funny comment herself. I love women who do this, shows confidence and zest for life.

"so i called you back slutface...i am enjoying my nintendo all alone (well i would be if i had one)"

If a girl somethin like that don't even consider her not bein interested she's deffo lovin your game.
 
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